[X] She could use a more human perspective. Even if her friends and family were not musically talented, they could give her feedback and advice.
I think in the process of crushing some rebels Mama Cai squashed some civies as a by product and Yu Nuan's family suffered as a result. Which would explain the grudge and punk rock attitude. Govt excess is shit punks fucking hate speaking as somebody who was somewhat in the scene in the late 90sAww, interesting. I like punk rock cultivator gal. I wonder how her raging against the machine and getting crushed led to a animosity towards the Cai, though. She's clanless and on her own, so it's pretty unlikely that Shenhua personally crushed her. Guess she ran into some Cai loyalist in the Sect and came out the worse for it? But why hitch that defeat to the Cai? Who knows, maybe she is just literally sore about The System and is leery about anyone working with The Man (well, woman in this case).
its not so much Ling Qi can't communicate her feelings it's thst she's really good at communicating her feelings of isolation, loss, and desire for people in her life. Where she sucks at is happy feelings since she's "a gloomy girl" as Six puts it. Ling Qi doesn't always want to be the frontman for the Cure but it's what she's good atMusic is about communicating your true feelings and Ling Qi's problem isn't in technical skill, which she has, but in knowing what she wants.
And Sixiang isn't very helpful there because we already know how they handle that. "do what feels good at the moment."
And Zeqing for all that she's a great mentor, would emphasize the part of Ling Qi she's uncomfortable with.