Old Canon, New Canon, Crap(Disney) Canon....
They all have parts that are stupid or break the rest of the details. Some groups are worse than others.
I have rants, and I have complaints, and I have "WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT" moments, but none of them are worth derailing the thread about.
Because this is Fencer's story, and Fencer's canon.
We need to figure out what specific choices are for this story.
Ehhhh *wiggles hand back and forth* don't get me wrong I don't want to see the thread dissolve into a massive fight about which canon is the most canon or whatever. But as I've said before my exposure to the wider star wars universe is pretty limited and I've ranted more than a few times about stupid decisions and inconsistencies. But that does mean discussion like this exposes me to new ideas facts and concepts, which I can often incorporate. For example this fic would be 90% less interesting if I hadn't stumbled across the Matukai in a couple of other stories and got to thinking.
you are absolutely correct when you say that this fic is running on my own version of canon. It has to. The way the Force works especially given John's decidedly grey approach and how contradictory the wiki is.
And if we are digging into poorly explained/defined/explored background info? Ohh you had better believe I'm making decisions that work for the story that don't necessarily conform. And there are actually bits I made up on the fly I'd like to go back and edit for more realistic statistics now that I've had so much time to sit on them and think about it but the core concept would stay the same regardless.
For example the Jedi order do not successfully recruit every youngling. In medieval times giving your kid to monks to raise might have guaranteed them education and food. During the Sith Wars it was probably the only chance the kid had for not being some Sith's apprentice. but in the current time period on even moderately developed planets? Public school and an average job guarantee the same thing and you don't have to give your kid up.
Luke despite being incredibly Force sensitive made it into his late teens just fine with no training. Leia didn't have any problems either. The Jedi could claim otherwise to parents, but the facts don't support it. I have no trouble imaging a lot of parents telling the Jedi to shove it and the kids growing up to lead normal lives where luck and skill seam to favor them. Which is a big chunk of John's target audiance.
On the other hand, while I'm sure jedi can and do accept being told no, there is a definite trend or at least subgroup who have superiority complexes and holier than thou attitudes. I don't even have to try to imagine someone like that pulling out every manipulative argument and stance they can think of while speaking with absolute calm and certainty until some parents cave. Or if someone like that found a kid in a loving home, where a single parent is struggling to make ends meet, and the neighborhood is bad?
"How could I leave a child so strong in the Force in such an environment? It would all but guarantee their eventual fall and even an untrained Force adept falling to the Dark Side could cause untold harm. For the good of the child, and the community it is my duty to rescue them from this fate. Why else would the Force have led me to them?"
So on the question of child kidnapping jedi my official stance is that it's uncommon. Partly because most listen when told no. Partly because they've been practicing their arguments and justifications for generations so they can convince some of the ones who initially say no. But it does sometimes happen on backwater planets or neighborhoods where a kid disappearing could have a number of much worse explanations.