"It is, like your context, good to know but beside the point. Though swords have not yet been drawn this is a conflict. I admit, I find you strange, Lady Ling. If you wish to avoid conflict so, why are you so determined to present a yielding face to the world, guaranteeing that it comes sooner?"
He sounded honestly perplexed. Was it because when she spoke her words, he could know she was being sincere in her intentions? "I do not believe I am being yielding, only fair and just. Evenhanded impartiality is my Lady's way. A stable and predictable face is better than either cringing or high handed aggression."
"How you are perceived matters more than your intent."