[X]The cemetery
Young Sun Ling does not seem to be the type to be overly religious or spiritual. The cemetery seems like the place that'll have a stronger connection to her past and her trauma while the Shrine seems like it'd deal with recontextualizing said trauma as she deals with her new perspective. Both have the options to help her, but I just like the idea of facing parts of your past you consider dead and buried while in a cemetery.