The sniping back and forth is not good natured, but also seems no more hostile than is natural in the Bai game of competitive dominance. It's interesting how and where the sniping was most lively.
I also think the fact that the Bai have the absolute most spicy food and that it's almost certainly a dominance display to devour something so dangerous without any outward reaction Extremely Hilarious. Holy moly what a way to flex lmao.
Whoever was commenting on how Xia Anxi was attempting to assert dominance in the conversation with us is 100% right. Ling Qi didn't react to any of it though, so I think it's assumed that we're an outsider not versed in such dominance competitions rather than assumed we're submissive. I'll expand on that later.
I'd like to focus on this exchange at the end:
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Ling Qi took a moment to finish chewing and took a small drink from the cup a servant had poured for her, chilling the watered wine as she took ahold of it. "I think that even a barbarian would understand the threat of an enemy gaining more allies."
"True," Lao Keung said, a smile briefly tugging at his lips. "Too often we forget that our enemies do not want to die."
"If you are acting properly, their opinion on the matter should be moot, no?" Xia Anxi drawled, but she could tell his attention was wandering back toward the ambassador and her liege.
"As if reality is ever so easy," Lao Keung scoffed.
"I generally agree," Ling Qi said carefully. "As one of my elders has said, the world is not a go board, there are no players, every piece moves itself."
Xia Anxi nodded noncommittally.
Loa Keung gave an approving grunt. "I would like to hear a bit more, Baroness. Would you give some details of your journey under the earth?"
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This is the exchange that causes Xia Anxi to check out, as it has become "beneath him". To act as is proper, the consideration of the enemy's opinion should be moot. For the Red Python and ourselves, who live on the front, it's an advantage we cannot afford to waste. Perhaps this could be an example of "Power needs no Excuse" in that, if you are strong enough you need not consider the movement of the opponent. Just another way that the Red Python, as a martial caste often on the front, would be considered lesser than the other castes.
This is where Lao Keung switches to the Plus 1 opinion if I had to guess, as he finds our pragmatic consideration of the enemy to be aligned with his own views. It's mentioned that the Green are the Rangers, and that sounds similar to the Scout duties we've often had to fulfill. I would not be surprised if the Green shared the same pragmatic consideration for their opponent's opinions that the Red (or at least Lao Keung) has shown. Placing ourselves in this camp is not endearing nor damning to Xia Anxi, but is endearing to Lao Keung.
This is where the fact we're not submissive circles back around. We didn't become ruffled by any of the raw animal terror, sizzling spicy foods, and have secured our position at the left hand of the Cai Heiress. We're not subordinate to Xia Anxi. We are also seemingly not actively competing with them for dominance.
Our conversation shifting towards martial talks which are improper is not worth Xia Anxi's attentions, and seeing as we're not contesting them for dominance, they shift their attentions to the more worthy.
I suspect that it will not be difficult to get the +1 for Xia Anxi at some point after this, as it seems that finding someone competent to converse with about their interests is all it will take since our status and lack of subordination already prove us worthy of not being discarded. I suspect that the most difficult parts of diplomacy with the Bai is not starting in the negative from the jump, and getting to any rank higher than perhaps 2. It was quite the ordeal getting to 4 with kind Meizhen, and that was while we were both children rather than fully fledged adults.
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[J] GG MAH BOI FLEX ON EM YEAHH GO GO GO
that's my vote. You may not like it, but this is the optimal vote formatting