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Is "Always tells the truth as bluntly as humanly possible to any potential love interest, thus ensuring that said interest remains potential" one of the compulsions that's been laid on Paul?

Cuz damn. I have crippling social anxiety and can't ask women out and I'm not that dense.
 
I have to ask at this point, is there something wrong with him?

Because that level of emotional and intellectual denseness is edging rather strongly into unrealistic harem protagonist territory.
I'm afraid that, while Themysciran by nationality, he was born with a crippling condition called Being British. It cripples his ability to understand American social cues and standards of decency.
 
I can see the future: Paul apologizes and Harley tearfully admits that he's right, before she goes away for 50 installments and the next time we see her she's in a relationship with another side-character. I'm gonna bet it's the girl Sivana, because why not?
 
You know, I'm glad this is a Grayven episode, if only because I'm increasingly not liking the Paragon character. It's like he's just completely incapable of understanding any of the motivations of other people. Or maybe he's completely forgotten what it's like to not be enlightened, and he just assumes everyone else has a perfect understanding of exactly what they want and why at all times. And they are also have absolutely no issues sharing anything they feel with other people at any time, assuming there's no active reason not to.

So, basically, he has no empathy. Ironic for the guy who just admitted to being empathetic. He thinks everyone else comprehends stuff the same way he does, and he's just not able to understand that they don't. Maybe he's turning into the Orange version of the Guardians, too focused on Avarice to understand the other emotions properly anymore. I mean, we all know he doesn't think the same way other people do, but I'm fairly sure he's forgotten this himself. It's long since gone past the 'oh that silly Paul, look at him not understanding signals' stage and started getting annoying, but now it's getting into the 'actually emotionally hurting other people with your ignorance' stage.

I mean, this is probably going to be nothing compared to the eventual Zatanna blowup. That'll have the Star Sapphire backing it up, and literal months of emotional dependency on Paul where she's also been effectively led on into thinking they can start a relationship once her father is free.

Is there a way to undo enlightenment? At least temporarily? I think he needs to un-enlighten himself occasionally so he doesn't totally lose touch with the way normal people think. Or maybe just stop wearing the rings for a while; he mostly stopped taking them off some point after reaching enlightenment, right? Maybe that doesn't protect him from their mind-altering effects like he's assumed, it just grants resistance.
 
ok this is confusing
if Paul doesn't see Violet light ( which in universe literally mean love ) in Harleen then why does she interested in him ?
 
ok this is confusing
if Paul doesn't see Violet light ( which in universe literally mean love ) in Harleen then why does she interested in him ?

Let me put it in programming terms.

Love != Sex.

I suspect what he said was somewhat true (though very blunt) as far as emotional dependency goes. Sort of funny to have it applied to a psychiatrist, who you would expect to normally be fairly introspective.
 
"I'm not. I'm concerned for you. Not only do you not love me, there's no flicker that could become true love. You're not particularly libidinous, so it's not just the endorphin release from sex that you're looking for. Why do you want me? Given.. your historyDo you.. really think that another.. relationship with a man is.. a solution? Eris considers going with the flow to be a sin, and I.. kind of see what she means. If you're just looking for the next Strange-."

"Oh, go t' hell!"

She turns face down and drops through the sky, tears leaking from her eyes.
This was....painful to read. That's supposed to be the Indigo of compassion and empathy, but it seems Paul really didn't think about how his words would hurt her. Not cool dude. Not cool at all.
 
That was incredibly insensitive. I'm one of the more insensitive people I know, and that was really bad. He had to know that that topic was bothering her, and he actually got more confrontational. Fuck, man. I was rooting for you(r SI). But Harleen deserves better. If he doesn't apologize first thing, and actually start paying more attention after this, it's gonna be hard for me to support another ship for a long while.
 
can you explain it in a way a dummy can understand
cause i can't
not mocking you or anything
but i just don't get it ?
People enjoy sex, but you don't have to be in love to have it. In fact, most people aren't in love with their partner, and that's both okay and a good thing. Being in love is an amazing chemical experience, and having a loving relationship is one of the greatest things in the world. However, having sex with a partner needn't ever be dependent on being in love with them. It can be something as simple as enjoying their company and wanting their body under you writhing on your cock while you hold down her hands above her head and choke her throat with your other hand.

In many cases it needn't be any more than that. That's great. Sexual gratification is a need that people have to have fulfilled, and it looks like Harleen was trying to have that fulfilled with Paul who she likes. Maybe it might eventually turn into love, it might take some time, or it might not ever have happened beyond friendship. But right then, she was after some cock, she liked him, and she wanted his.
 
...I guess I must be as dense as paul, cause I don't get it. What exactly did he do?
 
I have to ask at this point, is there something wrong with him?

Because that level of emotional and intellectual denseness is edging rather strongly into unrealistic harem protagonist territory.

While I won't object to the "harem protagonist" dig, I must object to "unrealistic". I've seen that level of denseness sometimes in the Real World.

And in this case, I'd also add "justifiable": Paul's leaning on his empathy vision is obviously doing weird things to his ability to get a read on a situation.

Thanks
Luc "Paul's Not Oblivious To Love, Just Oblivious To Pure Sexual Attraction" French
 
Damn, Paul. Normally, i'd consider empathy-vision an out and out invasion of privacy... but normally people have some understanding of how they're affecting others. For you, Paul, I'm willing to consider it a crutch... or, rather, a prosthetic, because you just plain don't seem to understand how people work at all.
 
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