You do realize they sent a fifth realm rather than a peer to talk to us? No other clan has done that, if anything this outweighs what other have done. If that isn't taking us seriously I don't know what is. As for earning it, this is specifically them trying to do just that. Seriously, they're doing us a political favor essentially, note the wording of the yes vote.
I think the idea that we would not be completely aware of that, probably never even entered their minds.This is basically a rich lawyer showing up to some college kids theater club and asking for us to add their kid to our final project. They show up talk to us for what, 5 minutes, and then give us nothing and ask for something. yeah no. If she was being sincere about it she would offer to a meeting with the three of us first. Instead it is straight to do this for me.
We are doing them a favor, and a big one. By joining closer to the Cai and getting on the ground floor of the negotiation they are strengthing the position of this internal fraction. It is a big deal to them, but they think we won't figure that out. Very rude.
Ah, there was the first thrust. "I am afraid that Hanyi was insistent," Ling Qi said, not raising her head. "Due to her lineage she is more human of mind than most. She wished to earn an allowance without straining this humble baroness' limited funds."
"Is that so?" asked Meng Diu. Up close, Ling Qi noticed, there was a faint melody in the air, a faint thing that spoke of autumn evenings and the song of crickets in the woodlands. "Unusual indeed. Do you intend to allow your spirit their own income? Many would look down upon you for this."
"While I will check her expenses, which is my duty as her elder sister under my former teacher, Hanyi's earnings will be her own," Ling Qi replied evenly. She would certainly play nice, and work to be more attentive, but on matters of family, she had no intention of bending.
This is basically a rich lawyer showing up to some college kids theater club and asking for us to add their kid to our final project. They show up talk to us for what, 5 minutes, and then give us nothing and ask for something. yeah no. If she was being sincere about it she would offer to a meeting with the three of us first. Instead it is straight to do this for me.
We are doing them a favor, and a big one. By joining closer to the Cai and getting on the ground floor of the negotiation they are strengthing the position of this internal fraction. It is a big deal to them, but they think we won't figure that out. Very rude.
I think the important distinction to make here is that Meng Diu's grandson isn't actually a person. Not in the context of the offer. He's her agent. His identity doesn't matter, not really, or not yet, because we're not being asked to advocate for him. We're being asked to enter into a relationship of trust with Meng Diu, contingent on the later performance of the agent she is lending to our liege's cause.I am pretty sceptical if accepting is such a good idea. The choices provided to us are also too unambiguous for my taste. I would like to answer with a non-answer like "I will relay your words to Lady Cai" and not make it clear which side we stand on. The decision if the boy will accompany us can be made later and with a lot more information.
If she pressures us for a clearer answer we can always say that we don't even know who she wants to send and simply accepting it would be careless or that this is a descision that can not be so easily made. We would be pretty reasonable and it is a lot better than a full rejection.
She basically insulted us with this proposal. It seems we have enough influence to pressure CRX but are not important enough to even know the name of before accepting to help the Meng. If we promise to work for them so willingly, it could weaken our position. It would look like we could be easily exploited.
To balance this vote a bit:
[x] Decline, you can't afford to involve internal politics in something as delicate as diplomacy with an unknown faction.
She basically insulted us with this proposal. It seems we have enough influence to pressure CRX but are not important enough to even know the name of before accepting to help the Meng. If we promise to work for them so willingly, it could weaken our position. It would look like we could be easily exploited.
Again, if we can snag Xuan Shi, I'm all for that. No need to sell me on it. But where does this idea that every person on this mission has to be a major noble come from? The official diplomat/head of mission is CRX, we are her second who will be doing most of the actual communicating, the Xia officer is head of security, if you're right about Xuan Shi he'll be a cultural advisor, and we don't actually know what the Meng kid brings to the table yet. That's more than enough VIPs, we need to fill out the body of the delegation.Alingge and Yu Nuan both don't have any real diplomatic skills, or even notable social skills if we're going to be real about it. They also don't have the political clout to get involved as anything like a representative of the empire. The Meng are counts so it can work, but anything lower than that is likely to sow broad political dissatisfaction in Emerald Seas. It's too open to criticism. There's also tricky allegiance questions. Yu Nuan isn't connected to anything but the sect, but that's technically an institution of the imperial throne, not the province. Alingge's clan is subordinate to the Luo, which raises the question of why not a Luo representative in the first place? It's messy.
The only reason I suggested Xuan Shi is because his status and clan would make it relatively clean. A really big thing is he's the only Xuan in the territory to possibly act as an observer to proceedings, so his low personal strength for a participant is excused. The Xuan have dealing-with-foreigners cache. They're officially on good terms with Cai and the ES, with overt plans to reopen and strengthen trade ties. It's just not messy. Almost anyone else is messy.
This is also me wanting to tip things towards narrative flow/continuity. Back when Xuan Shi approached us ahead of the underground mission, it was some good setup. But on the mission, he ended up being sidelined, wasting the opportunity. Us going to him for advice for this diplomatic mission and leaving it at that, even while we're now adding other people in our rough age bracket to the mission, feels like the same kind of dropped plot thread for no real reason.
Adding Xuan Shi is a really easy and obvious change to make, and I can't really think of any justification for not doing it. Weaving our plot threads into a sturdier cord has been a strong priority from all sides for some time. So let's do it.
Edit: Heck, Cai Renxiang even explicitly ordered us to try to strengthen bonds with Xuan Shi. Twice! She should be super open to the suggestion of inviting him along. There's like zero barriers here.
How would knowing his name be relevant to this decision?not important enough to even know the name of before accepting to help the Meng.
Anyone going on the mission is ticking off the Sect. Anyone who comes with us either needs their own pre-existing support base, or a guarantee of access to CRX's, lest the Sect take petty vengeance that would nevertheless have significant implications to their cultivation.But where does this idea that every person on this mission has to be a major noble come from?
Meng Diu is basically asking us to say to CRX "no no dude trust me this guys cool Hes solid and hes cool" ...
Yes, but also no.Meng Diu is basically asking us to say to CRX "no no dude trust me this guys cool Hes solid and hes cool" ...
Cai Renxiang is Her Dread Tyranny's Heir. By putting a Meng scion in CRX's orbit, it's establishing a relationship between clans as CRX begins to move out of the adolescent space (i.e. The Sect) and into being a political figure.
Or, we could not be stupid about it, and goMaybe this is moving her into more of the public role but that is just an argument as to why we shouldn't do this. She was always going to enter the adult political spehere, she is the ducal heir. But she was going to do it when it suited the Cai and not the Meng. As for the allying with the Meng, if this fraction wants to ally themselves then they should be a bit more forward about it. They are trying to get someone into her inner circle without ever meeting and by using us but not even letting us know anything about him. Also, if that is what they are doing then we are doing them a favor by bringing him. What are they offering back? Seems like building this sort of alliance would be worth a lot.
Also, the convesation we can have with CRX about this now is basically:
LQ: So there is this meng guy we should bring.
CRX: Who is he?
LQ: idk, lol. Some grandkid of the diplomat
CRX: What is he good at
LQ: idk, diplomacy?
CRX: What is he like?
LQ: idk, lol
and so forth. But we will still convince crx of this somehow anyway I guess. Really my issue is that agreeing here feels very strange for LQ and not useful. Also, I think it is the meng treating LQ and her judgment very poorly. If anything we should be agreeing to meeting with him first.
All the logistics are already handled. It's a Cai Shenhua sponsored diplomatic envoy. Any role that needs to be filled is already filled. For instance, we didn't need to make a translation technique because translation is already going to be handled through a specialist or talisman, more likely the latter.Again, if we can snag Xuan Shi, I'm all for that. No need to sell me on it. But where does this idea that every person on this mission has to be a major noble come from? The official diplomat/head of mission is CRX, we are her second who will be doing most of the actual communicating, the Xia officer is head of security, if you're right about Xuan Shi he'll be a cultural advisor, and we don't actually know what the Meng kid brings to the table yet. That's more than enough VIPs, we need to fill out the body of the delegation.
My initial point was that we know so few people who are available that adding the Meng kid isn't taking a potential place from one of our friends, Alingge and Yu Nuan are pretty much the only two I can think of. Is Alingge's cultural group descended from the hill tribes? If so she's a good pick on her own merits, but I can't remember.
Can't speak for their issues with him, but Luo has proven himself to be inconsiderate. When we attended his party, he spent the whole time tweaking things and putting us on the spot as some kind of elaborate test that also deliberately polarized our reception. This undermined our broad goal of engaging with our peers on a larger scale, and he acted like he was doing us a favor the whole time. He didn't act inappropriately, it was within his reasonable discretion to put us through the wringer, even though he was the one who invited us because of our recent notable achievements, but it's hard to say he wasn't wasting our time.
The guy we are being offered is irrelevant, they could give us a sack of rocks for all i care.
The point is that an envoy to the Duchesses court, came to to us, and asked for something.
Yes, it is not stated quite as blatantly, but this is us doing them a favor, and it is up to them to not fuck it up.
Also, unless i am off in a major way, this is not a retainer position, it is a purely temporary companion for one mission, with a recommendation from a major player in a count house, with the understanding that he is there to report on, and make friends with, CRX/LQ.
I'm honestly puzzled on why people are upset about this.
Oh, he's very very relevant. In judging Meng worth as a future partner both for us and for our liege. Meng also do understand this so they'll send "sack of rocks" only if they decided that Cai-jr is somebody they'll never have to deal with in the future. But in such case we unlikely to get offer in the first place.The guy we are being offered is irrelevant, they could give us a sack of rocks for all i care.
She had her suspicions about one particularly chatty boy, whose eyes had seemed to go a little glassy before he excused himself. As she approached the rear of the room however, the interruptions lessened, until at last no one seemed to notice her anymore.
Anyone else see similarities between Meng Diu and Meizhen's father? They both cultivate not being seen, though Lady Meng seems to cultivate ambiguity and secrecy whereas Hou Zhuang cultivate obscurity and being beneath notice. What if her grandson is the same?"It is an unusual event," Meng Diu replied, studying her. It was hard for Ling Qi to make out her eyes or expression, to her consternation there seemed to be an odd, blurry filter over her eyes.