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Controversial gaming opinion: video games are good.
Yeah that poor innocent abusive step dad plagued by his evil t o x i c stepdaughter.I can't tell if this is about David or Chloe, and that's saying something.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that the statement, which you should absolutely take to heart I think, was directed primarily at '(and not even really hard)' and all that saying this implies.If people want to talk about the specifics of hitting, then I'm going to, don't quote this out of context to make it seem like I'm randomly downplaying being hitten for no reason.
So what?I mean, most 19 year olds don't get themselves $5k in debt to a drug dealer.
The studies are usually about younger children. Like, that's part of the assumption. Do you think it's normal for teenagers to be spanked? And yet that's the corporal punishment most often talked about and quantified when one talks about corporal punishment of children.
The studies talk about "how often you spank your child." Which doesn't imply to me that these are parents of sixteen year olds bending them over their knee.
Also American. Parents never hit meThis is not normal or good. I am American, and trust me when I say I know many people who have dealt with abusive parents. This is exactly the shit abusers say after they loose their temper; they tell you that you're lucky because other people would've done worse. It's literally textbook gaslighting. Please in the future when people tell you a conversation is making them uncomfortable maybe don't imply the teenage girl was lucky to only get hit by her father actually.
And most teenagers aren't the grandiose fuck up that Chloe is.
We're going in circles here.
Chloe constantly belittles, mocks, and insults her stepfather to his face. Tell me, is this something a, most kids do, or b, something you thinking abused children do?
Because in my personal experience, they absolutely fucking do not. So no, I do not get the impression that Chloe has a uniquely abusive childhood, because the game tells me that she has no fear of saying whatever she wants to him.
So here's the million dollar question :Chloe constantly belittles, mocks, and insults her stepfather to his face.
Yeah that poor innocent abusive step dad plagued by his evil t o x i c stepdaughter.
What she needs is therapy and medication and a whole goddamn lot of help
..what the fuck. Abused children in fact react a lot of different ways to abuse, this isn't even controversial.
So we went from, Chloe is so obviously being abused, to well so what if she doesn't act like she's being abused. So is it obvious or not?
Again, all the context we have is her being hit for bringing drugs into the house in the backdrop of him suspecting he stole her gun.
So here's the million dollar question :
...and ?
Abuse does not justify abuse. Ocular reciprocitry doctrine is stupid.
Okay no, I'm focusing on this. David installed cameras everywhere inside Joyce's house, because she's the one who owns the place and David's just her husband, without her knowledge or consent. He regularly spied on and harassed Katie because of the video from the party, adding another point of trauma onto her because getting drugged, raped, and then publicly slut-shamed by anyone and everyone, is not a good thing. It got so bad that the principle, David's boss, told him 'step off' and David just went 'no.'Most kids don't get themselves $5,000 in debt to a drug dealer.
Also, the tidbit about how David is spying on people is a bit comical given that he's doing it in his own investigation into Rachel's disappearance, ans Chloe and Max do similar things in their own investigation all the time.
...I thinks she does act like she's being abused. Just not the way you seem to believe is the only way to react to abuse.
And what's this super obvious way that doesn't involve any sort of tension at being around or being aggressive to her abuser.
Okay no, I'm focusing on this. David installed cameras everywhere inside Joyce's house, because she's the one who owns the place and David's just her husband, without her knowledge or consent. He regularly spied on and harassed Katie because of the video from the party, adding another point of trauma onto her because getting drugged, raped, and then publicly slut-shamed by anyone and everyone, is not a good thing. It got so bad that the principle, David's boss, told him 'step off' and David just went 'no.'
David's spying is not something to brush aside. It's specifically called out by the game as bad.
...doesn't involve any sort of tension at being around? Really? I basically disagree with the entire conception of that turn of phrase.
Maybe if she was better written it would be a tough decision but I was just like, "Why is this a choice at all, I don't even like Chloe." I think this comment surmised it best:
You ever tried that 5D Chess game on Steam? That is a really unique take on Chess and more people should play it.I think chess games are woefully underambitious. Don't just give me more regular chess, give me variants, changed rules, random piece assignment. Even if I stick with just the regular chess forms it'd be fun to have some variant options, and I bet the rule sets would be easy to program.
Do you know the name of this game? I want to check that out.You ever tried that 5D Chess game on Steam? That is a really unique take on Chess and more people should play it.
To explain a bit more, you can move chess pieces across the entire history of the game, so you could use your piece to capture another piece from two turns ago and create a new timeline where you can use a piece from there to capture the Queen from the main timeline.