I do hope we're going to get a reasonable number of in-game chances to work this out. I understand why we can't just have infinity conversations in a normal turn or whatever, but I hope we're not going to be restricted to "you can sound out only one potential marriage partner or relevant outside figure like Rhaenys/Otto/etc per three months, twelve month deadline" or something like that. Given that this is basically supposed to be Rhaenyra's #1 project and it's super important to both her and all the other people involved, I would hope that she'll be able to put a realistic amount of thought and analysis into this given the "by spring" deadline which is, what, 18-36 months from now I'm guessing depending on how much of capitalized Autumn we have left and how long Winter is.The main things that will make Rhaenyra gain stress from marrying is actually marrying before she's ready and having important decisions about her marriage made without her.
I had trouble parsing what you're saying here, but I think I understand.I disagree and have stated as much. If anything if he and Rhaenyra aren't open about their previous talk with Alicent that's a serious issue with my support of the marriage. I really don't like the dynamic that sets, and if he wouldn't have been honest without that talk, that sets it's own worrying tones to the situation.
We aren't going to be in a position to marry until spring, probably the third turn of spring the earliest if we want to give the Vale time to unthaw so Jeyne can attend. That's probably another 10 turns minimum given the length of Westerosi winters.I do hope we're going to get a reasonable number of in-game chances to work this out. I understand why we can't just have infinity conversations in a normal turn or whatever, but I hope we're not going to be restricted to "you can sound out only one potential marriage partner or relevant outside figure like Rhaenys/Otto/etc per three months, twelve month deadline" or something like that. Given that this is basically supposed to be Rhaenyra's #1 project and it's super important to both her and all the other people involved, I would hope that she'll be able to put a realistic amount of thought and analysis into this given the "by spring" deadline which is, what, 18-36 months from now I'm guessing depending on how much of capitalized Autumn we have left and how long Winter is.
(I really think capitalizing those seasons helps distinguish them from normal Earthly seasons)
I understand that. It just feels increasingly like this is building into thread crusade, like training and Alicent, where this becomes the threads focus unless something forces us to put it aside for a while, to the detriment of anything not a goal or one of Rhaenyra's three favorite ladies.Second, it's just a natural consequence of the way this stuff plays out. Since Teen Spirit's not going to write a 10000 word conversation, getting important things out of the way and starting the characters off with a better understanding of each other will have an effect on how the conversation goes.
Well, the action economy does legitimately force us to concentrate on a specific and manageable number of important priority projects if we actually want to get them done. There's a valid incentive structure to treat important tasks as being worth committing serious action economy focus to, rather than scattershotting our actions widely.I understand that. It just feels increasingly like this is building into thread crusade, like training and Alicent, where this becomes the threads focus unless something forces us to put it aside for a while, to the detriment of anything not a goal or one of Rhaenyra's three favorite ladies.
A time constraint of more than 2 years worth of turns(possibly even 3) because westerosi winters are long and it's unlikely to be rushed to be the very first turn of spring. Making it a priority is reasonable. High priority is pushing things.The marriage thing is something where we actually legitimately do have a time constraint, so making it a high priority is entirely reasonable.
Does Rhaenyra strike you as someone who'd wait until the white raven arrives? Not to mention that the more seriously we take this, the better we'll be able to win approval and the more time we'll have to gauge opinions and navigate the changing landscape before the Progress resumes.A time constraint of more than 2 years worth of turns(possibly even 3) because westerosi winters are long and it's unlikely to be rushed to be the very first turn of spring. Making it a priority is reasonable. High priority is pushing things.
You are right. Investigating political consideration and Looking for Visenya Spellbooks can be something for the while waiting for Alicent character arc.That said, as I wrote this, I thought of a surprising counterpoint. Alicent is still in the middle of her own character arc. She might not yet have the surety to be completely frank about what she wants. Maybe a choosing season can be a few turns long to give her time to settle on an opinion...
There is a difference between doing something last minute and making it a multi action focus of every turn. Rhaenyra is focus and dedicated, but the voters choose her actions and whether something important is put to the side to focus extra hard on marriage. The playing to character trope doesn't hold up to a knighting at 16 levels of singular focus.Does Rhaenyra strike you as someone who'd wait until the white raven arrives?
Gonna say right now, not that hard. They've spent several months on the road together and Rhaenyra directly pushed for him to be named to the city watch. She could honestly say he seems like he could be a firm ally.I'm rather fascinated what Rhaenyra's gonna spin to Viserys to justify Gwayne being anywhere near in the running without Alicent as a justification.
I guess Viserys considered marrying Alicent so it's not *that* out there but still, she'd basically have to really sell that she personally wanted to marry him.
Gwayne accompanied us on our Progress, was there for us in our moment of crisis after executing Arnold, and is our best friend's brother whose position as the son of a second son poses little risk to our ability to rule in our own right.I'm rather fascinated what Rhaenyra's gonna spin to Viserys to justify Gwayne being anywhere near in the running without Alicent as a justification.
Gonna say right now, not that hard. They've spent several months on the road together and Rhaenyra directly pushed for him to be named to the city watch. She could honestly say he seems like he could be a firm ally.
Gwayne accompanied us on our Progress, was there for us in our moment of crisis after executing Arnold, and is our best friend's brother whose position as the son of a second son poses little risk to our ability to rule in our own right.
EDIT: Ninja'd almost point for point by the QM 😭
I think that Rhaenyra would much rather have this resolved, work hard to make up her mind quickly, and then be able to announce her decision and get on with her life, than dawdle over the decision for a couple of years while she pursues other things.A time constraint of more than 2 years worth of turns(possibly even 3) because westerosi winters are long and it's unlikely to be rushed to be the very first turn of spring. Making it a priority is reasonable. High priority is pushing things.
I would like to point aout that according to @Teen Spirit seasons are around 2 years on average, but considering that we are still on the frist year of Autumm, we are probably going to still have 3 years and a little after.A time constraint of more than 2 years worth of turns(possibly even 3) because westerosi winters are long and it's unlikely to be rushed to be the very first turn of spring. Making it a priority is reasonable. High priority is pushing things.
Honestly I would put one action every other turn, that is more than enough to speak with all the 4 real candates and, Alicent, and other possible advisors (especially if we can use the Talk actions to do so)...I think that Rhaenyra would much rather have this resolved, work hard to make up her mind quickly, and then be able to announce her decision and get on with her life, than dawdle over the decision for a couple of years while she pursues other things.
If the current leading option in marriage task wins, we have already shown Viserys that we took the marriage very seriously, so as long as we show that we take that duty seriouslyA reputation for decisiveness will also help restore Viserys' confidence in Rhaenyra, which is a good thing to cultivate given that for the next 10-15 years he's going to be in a position to give us orders. If he knows he can trust us to make a decently good decision quickly without being pressured and prompted, it may well be less likely that he feels the need to make such decisions for us, or exercise his power to force our hand.
It is not "putting off" the marriage, it is simply to avoid to mono focus on it for the next 2-3 years and do other stuff...By the way, anyone who is in favour of "putting off" the marriage decision you're my favourite btw because you're accidentally arguing for a Laenor marriage.
In the book canon Rhaenyra kept refusing options and putting it off and so Viserys chose for her and he chose "stability" aka Laenor for her.
So actually yes as the number one "lets marry Laenor" stan you should all delay marriage and ignore Viserys asking us to sort that shit out
With the way actions and thread focus in this thread works anything other than getting the legwork done now means getting distracted by the next shiny object. Long term planning and SV are like oil and water /hjIt is not "putting off" the marriage, it is simply to avoid to mono focus on it for the next 2-3 years and do other stuff...