So like George Lucas doesn't like the extended canon of "his universe," and that's great, but we are talking about the movies only. Not the comic books. And BTW, Mister Mace Windu admits he just willy-nilly kills Droids, he said he killed 100,000 Droids, and the Droids are supposed to wanna surrender to a guy like that? Furthermore he says, "Reprogram you" so they can "serve a better purpose" which is not only creepy as all hell it's treating what are pretty much sentient machines as property. At least Mister Windu doesn't care about Droid liberation.
I've also never seen the Jedi promoting "individuality for the clones," and I question if that's even in the movies, but Jedi clearly have double standards. They use mind control when it suits them ("This is not the Droid you're looking for," anybody? Rey Mind Tricking that security guard?), they kill their enemies when it suits them and threaten new enemies, which is dumb. Jedi are just as violent as the Sith. At least the Sith is open and honest about it.
There's no such thing as "too much attachment." I think the Jedi are cautioning against perfectly healthy feeling. Darth Vader was worried the love of his life was gonna die. I really sympathize with him more than the Jedi who pretty much advocated just letting it happen. The Sith aren't all bad.
And I really don't think it was a lie that General Grievous was fighting for Droid liberation and y'all still haven't provided actual characters saying it's not. Mind control chips are evil, yes, but Jedi use mind control too.