- Pronouns
- He/Him
But they're being raised with at least the implicit expectation that they will serve. It's the norm for them; the vast majority of their peers will be conforming to that expectation.So it sounds like they already do the thing you're asking them to do.
- They aren't obligated to remain Jedi. They're allowed to leave, just like data entry specialists.
- Normally Jedi don't become Padawans (the earliest stage of actually going out and doing stuff) until they're teenagers (or, presumably equivalent). (See: Ahsoka being considered young for a Padawan at 14 in The Clone Wars, the movie)
- Before becoming padawans, they're basically just adopted and being raised in an environment that has experience dealing their psychic/magic abilities (see: Baby Yoda's Force choke), isn't prejudiced against them (See: Dooku left to the wolves for being a "Freak"), and will protect them from kidnappers (see: "Children of the Force" in The Clone Wars series).
Palpatine's rise to power was laid out before Return of the Jedi: the people of the Republic didn't care enough to elect competent officials.
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But eventually the citizens of the Republic "didn't care enough to elect competent officials", says Lucas the historian, and so their government collapsed. A sorcerer, a bad counterpart of Yoda, blocked all opposition and declared himself Emperor
Palpatine's rise was enabled by voters who wanted to be promised easy solutions rather than "trudging up the hill"
Being raised in that environment and allowed to leave is drastically different to being approached when you've had a relatively normal childhood and offered this choice.
Side note: I'd like to see more instances of Force-sensitive people who didn't get or, more pertinently, didn't chose a Jedi or any kind of spiritual path.