Can't say I'm entirely surprised that 'love' and 'family' turned out to be hard for Jade, but I
was surprised by how hard it locked down the process. Then again, Jade is a loooong way from being fully ready to open up to people.
This actually feels a bit like Nanoha's crush to me - Sidhe fixated on us because we were available and supportive and she didn't have anybody else. Except, because Sidhe didn't have phys- oh fuck, she got rid of physical attraction because she was being distracted by Jade. Either way, instead of getting a crush on us, she decided we were family.
That is... alarmingly plausible. We know Sidhe denied, point blank, having any same-sex attractions... but then again that very denial may reflect discomfort that could be an underlying part of why she'd decide as you suggest she did.
Did we really not get enough votes for accepting the oath yet?
Oh, the support was nearly unanimous, ti's just that the "accept her oath" train came to a screeching halt at the part where Jade isn't comfortable saying "I love you" to a friend like Sidhe.
So... my vote.
[X] Try some other method of comforting Sidhe.
-[X] You're still fuzzy on what it all entails, but you don't intend to let anyone become your retainer if you don't already really like them.
-[X] You already treasure Sidhe, oaths or no oaths. She doesn't need to meet any arbitrary standards.
-[X] You aren't a fight away from leaving her.
Period.
[X] Ask Sidhe if she wants Nanoha present for the giving of her oaths. It's entirely up to Sidhe, you just wanted to ask.
[X] If the answer to that is "yes," it's probably best to wait for Nanoha to wake up, then accept Sidhe's oath. If not...
[X] Accept Sidhe's oath.