1) No it isnt. And your characterization of Molly's history is inaccurate.[X] Plan Designing Greatness
It would be supremely hypocritical to deny him this. We have made a great many mistakes, we have grasped for thing that have burned us when people who know better were telling us to go home and be a teenager, and I'm not sure the English language has the words to describe the level of hubris in our actions. We're planning on pulling a Denarian out of Harry and making the woman his literal, rather than metaphorical, roommate and we have a Naaglioshii that is kinda-sorta our friend right now.
Shit, man, we're not in a position to tell somebody off for playing Icarus. We did it even before we got our Exaltation, back before McCoy declared that we weren't human enough to execute. If somebody wants to do something patently unwise all we have a right to do is ensure that they go into it eyes open and then do our damnedest to make sure Icarus keeps his wings on this time. We'll bring gorilla glue and flextape.
This is what humans do. Even when we know best, we can't just act like we know best.
Our best bet is to give him something but to do so slowly enough, arduously enough, that he doesn't go into power-fantasy-mode and fatally lose a fight with a windmill. Training from hell can instill maturity and caution, hopefully, before maturity and caution are necessary for survival. Something that can be built upon but which isn't just handing the kid a loaded gun that any idiot can use, something that intentionally takes work but which has enough promise that he wants to keep working.
Molly's arguments with Charity were never over magic, or violence. She or her friends dabbled in drugs, got caught, she apologized, Charity still tried to cut her off from her friends, and she left home in response.
2) No we did not.
Molly literally only used her power in extremis to help her friends, and she had to be duped by an enemy agent into doing so how she did. She didnt show up at Dresden's place volunteering to go fight Red Court vampires or Denarians.
3)No, our best bet is to actually talk to the kid and try and talk shit out.
Training from hell does not instill maturity as any military recruit will tell you; if it did, Hell Week would regularly make the US SEALs the most mature, most professional group of soldiers the US has, instead of the shitshow that came out of the War on Terror.
The average age of the US military recruit circa 2000 was 18-19, and six plus months of Basic and AIT sure doesnt make them mature either.
I dont strictly have an issue with training him for self-defence.
Or giving him gear for self-defence. I have an issue with him trying to get involved in this war at his age.
The kid is 16. He's a high school sophomore.
He didnt stumble/wasnt nudged into cosmic power like Molly, nor was he born into it like Lydia; he has no special claim to competence in this field. And he's a target due to who he was born to.
He should grow up before even thinking of this.
I would still oppose it, but he'd at least have enough life experience to make an informed choice. Instead of trying to play out teenage fantasies in an arena where shit gets very real and there are no takebacks.
Literally the only people in the setting who have recruited people that young or younger were Winter and the Denarians.
And Winter at least was sending its recruits off to training camp, not to put them in the field.
We literally talked a naagloshii around this month.The rational thing would be for Daniel to stay as a supporting mundane, but the thing is... I don't think we can convince him of that at this point. At least without resorting to borderline-mind-control Exalted social combat. And while I don't think refusing to empower him would be "violating his agency", that would.
If we want to talk Daniel around, we can do so. And since we routinely use Excellencies in our conversations with family, I fail to see where the agency argument is coming from.
This is not true. We know its not true because we saw Daniel grow up in canon as Michael's son and Molly's brother.And it's important to remember, that we aren't the only game in town. Dresdenvere is full of entities happy to tempt with power, especially a Knight's son. Best case, he will just convince Lydia to act without our approval. Worse case, he will find it somewhere darker.
All through Michael's career, he didnt seek occult power. Even in Ghost Story, when Michael was crippled and Molly was on the run and he was volunteering with the Chicago Alliance, he didnt do this.
The Carpenters raised him better than that.
Even Molly when she was on the run with the Sword of Damocles over her head didnt do deals with dark powers.
Its been hammered into their heads that shit aint free, and they've seen the results of it in the people Michael hunts.
And it stuck.
Furthermore?
I have serious issues with the argument that the solution to someone being willing to traffic with dark powers is to make them more powerful, instead of actually addressing the personality issues that make them want said power in the first place.
An AU Daniel who was has lived through shit like Shiro's murder but is still willing to go bargain with that type of entity?
Would be someone we would probably have to kill.