Independent of the actual issues involved, it'd almost be funny for someone to exalt as an Abyssal as a blamp tries to turn them. However it played out the whole situation would be a train wreck for ages after the fact.
Still an awful idea, but the idea of some elder looking at an abyssal and going "what the hell does Bill feed his kids?" while they rampage around killing things is certainly something.
I mean, taking blampires as WoD vampire analogs, that's canon:
Melbourne's a likely spot for the world's first Ex -
alt-run Camarilla city. There's an Abyssal there
who received the Black Exaltation in the middle
of his Embrace, before his would-be sire could
finish getting her wrist open. Prince Taylor
still hasn't mustered anything more than faint
curiosity about how the kid's sire managed to
fuck up the Embrace and get him to come out
as weird as he did. He certainly isn't scared yet,
although he will be. Give it time.
Most Abyssals are basically being conditioned and shaped into a particular attitudes and aptitudes. Deprival of your old name and adoption of a new one inspired by the ideology being pushed on you, isolation from previous social links, repeated glorification of particular ideologies, punishment for breaking rules..... They are all classic brainwashing/indoctrination techniques.
While these are true, you state them in a way that pushes an agenda, and in many cases is just not correct for ExvsWoD. Let's start with the name. Abyssals are deprived of their old name, yes. "adoption of a new one inspired by the ideology being pushed on you" is wrong for ExvsWoD. There's no ideology remaining. An abyssal previously known as Joe is free to adopt the name Bob, as far as I see. It would be a temporary measure, but it would work. See the quote:
The Abyssal Exalted sacrifice their name in the
course of their Exaltation. Should they try to cling to it
afterwards, they are lashed with pain and calamity as their
Essence rises in rebellion against them. While a simple
alias may serve as a replacement in a pinch, each knows
in her heart of hearts that she is truly nameless, and that
should she ever come to identify with a new name, then
it too will one night be carried away by the storm-winds.
So it is that, sooner or later, most Abyssals learn to
go by titles. Sometimes these attempt to express who
the deathknight was, or aims to be. Often they are a
warning, a minor courtesy to those who encounter
her. Most frequently, though, Abyssals draw their titles
from dreams of dead gods, which express themselves as
faint whispers tainting a deathknight's Essence.
Here you are free to counter me with "but see, yog, Abyssals draw their titles from dreams of dead gods, which express themselves as faint whispers tainting a deathknight's Essence", so clearly there's still brainwashing going on. Except, only "some" of abyssals actually get Whispers at all. It's an optional background you get to buy at chargen:
W hispers W hispers
Some Abyssals feel the voice of Oblivion whisper-
ing, crawling, skittering through the back of their
mind, a vague and comforting glow of nihilism
that is with them always. This is in fact the bar-
est and murkiest edge of the spectral hive-mind,
and with some practice, an Abyssal can learn to
momentarily tap into it and draw upon its vast re-
serves of experience and knowledge. Once per night,
an Abyssal can substitute her Whispers rating in place
of any one Ability when making a dice roll.
It's perfectly valid for an abyssal to just... not hear whispers of neverborn. Mechanical advantages are high enough that I think it's expected at least some players would pick it up, but it's equally plausible that out of 100 abyssals, 1 would hear whispers of Neverborn.
Canon abyssal goes by "Skull Girl"
Then you posit "isolation from previous social links". As far as I know that's just wrong. Nothing is stopping you from telling your folks "I am going through my goth phase, and am going to be changing my name each 3 months for tax reasons" and just keep on with your life.
"repeated glorification of particular ideologies" - what's that about? Trapping of the grave? Yeah, ok, but said ideologies include ancestor worship, buddism, and basically a lot of wordily religions and traditions.
"punishment for breaking rules" - that one is the most true. Here are the rules and consequences of breaking them:
These are the laws that the Black Exaltation de-
mands an Abyssal follow:
• She must not say or acknowledge her lost name, or
any name she truly considers to be her own. Each time
she does so, she suffers the curse of the Neverborn.
• She must not increase the numbers of the living. Sir-
ing or bearing a child is forbidden, and the moment of
the child's birth brings with it the curse of the Neverborn.
• She must not save the lives of the living. Any scene in
which she does so provokes the curse of the Neverborn.
The curse of the Neverborn expresses itself as one of
a variety of temporary punishments, chosen by the Story-
teller. The curse is generally transitory, lasting for anywhere
from a scene to a few days. Common examples include:
• The next time the Abyssal manifests her fangs, she
is unable to banish them for three days.
• She gains the Nightmares flaw (see V20, page 485)
for a week.
• She has great difficulty approaching some com -
mon stimulus such as the scent of garlic or roses, holy
ground, holy symbols, or the sound of churchbells,
and must roll Willpower (difficulty 7) to remain close
to the cursed object or sensation.
• She gains the Beacon of the Unholy flaw (see V20,
page 494).
• The Abyssal gains the Eerie Presence flaw (see
V20, page 495).
• The character suffers the Lord of the Flies flaw (see
V20, page 495).
• The Abyssal finds bright lights and direct sunlight
painful, increasing the difficulty of all actions by 1
while in such circumstances.
• A terrible lethargy falls upon the Abyssal when the
sun rises, compelling her to sleep from sunrise until
sunset. If she remains awake and active anyway, she
suffers a –2 penalty to all actions.
• Spectres detect the anger of the Neverborn echoing
through their hive-mind and become hostile to the Abyssal.
They are terrible, and bad. But they are not ideological, not directly. Neverborn are almost gone as actors. It's all automatic. A crippling condition, but better than death.
On a tangentially related note: what is stopping an abyssal exaltation from being transformed into an infernal / primordial one? The same way yozis transformed solars, should it not be possible to do the same with an inverted variant? Might even be simpler than turning them back into a solar.