[X] Ask her if that is really so bad? The Third realm was where cultivators set the foundations which guided the rest of their road. Of course divergences would appear.
What wiuld sixang do? Hmmm
What wiuld sixang do? Hmmm
y'all are callous as hell. We can bring this up again with her in like, a month when we have PMR? Or when we get MSS in two months? The only people that care about time limit are Shenhua and the math cabal.
Seriously. Meizhen *just* warned us, we've been warned about Social Arts for a long time, we've just gotten lucky with our brazen disrespect and Meizhen told us it was lucky. Like. Can we just wait a month before we try and bring it up? CRX might find it on her own, do we give a damn about how she feels or are we more concerned with "doing the right thing (for us, and her. She'll see. We know what's right)" or do we actually feel like "one person's feelings, alone, do not make a family".
Our SL 4 just told us we're pretty hurtful and incompetent with social, and were lucky to get away with what we did. She warned us that not everyone would recover from the way we selfishly trample on people's feelings just so that our personal conscious is unburdened. Remember when Meizhen was demoted from SL 4 to SL 3 after we fucked up our rejection?
Take the hit for the month or two thread. I don't think we'll recover the SL with CRX in a similar way to Cui being pretty permanently low-SL with us. Trampling her vulnerable feelings with our honesty is a retraumatizing of what her mother did to her. It's real wrong chat. Come on.
Hanyi is entering conspiracies to dress Ling Qi up and making it known she can be bribed!!"Hello! My name is Hanyi," the young ice spirit chirped, bowing her head low. "Ling Qi mentioned you a lot. Is it true that she got all of her pretty things from you?"
So that was her angle, Ling Qi did her best not to let her eyebrow twitch.
Cai Renxiang's expression was blank. "That is not entirely inaccurate," the heiress replied a touch dryly. Ling Qi hoped that it was a good sign.
"Ah, Lady Cai must be very generous," Hanyi said with a grin. "I wish I could have those kind of things too."
"I will mark down a stipend for equipment expenses," Cai Renxiang said. She turned her head and met Ling Qi's eyes directly.
"I will be happy to advise on the matter," Bai Meizhen cut in smoothly.
Ling Qi met Cai Renxiang's gaze and found it implacable, she glanced to Meizhen and Cui, seeing no pity, and in Hanyi there was only avarice. Even Zhengui only looked on with innocent curiosity. She was alone and outmaneuvered. "Of course, thank you for your generosity, Lady Cai."
Where indeed. Does Cui have a pocket dimension or did they have an impromptu hunt?though it involved the corpse of a huge mountain beast she didn't immediately recognize. Where had that come from?
Yrs already answered but it's worth noting that domain insight votes are a meta abstraction in 2 ways; First, IC the insight voted-for is the one that LQ (and others who cultivate arts) arrives at in an "it was always going to be the case" way. Second, as an OOC lever to control the direction of LQ's growth as a person/cultivator, in a way that interacts meaningfully with both choices present and voted during social and action situations and together create character development and sometimes conflict.yrsillar, I know you said you can't offer QM guidance, but I am confused about how this statement translates into the metaphysics/mechanics that we understand. Is she saying:
Upon reflection, I'm assuming 3, but it's weird that she didn't notice it was Domain-incompatible, because we have explicit awareness of what arts are or are not domain-compatible, and I'd expect her to as well. If she did notice, I'd have expected her to say something like "part of the way through, I realized there was no meaning" instead of "I finished it and there was no meaning in it."
- She finished an art and rejected its possible insights
- She finished an art and it didn't offer any insights (which I didn't think was possible)
- She finished an art and discovered it had become Domain-incompatible along the way, due to an insight she had slotted between starting and finishing its cultivation
- Purposeful ambiguity between the possibilities above
- QM refuses to specify
Thank you for the heads up.
[X] Ask her if that is really so bad? The Third realm was where cultivators set the foundations which guided the rest of their road. Of course divergences would appear.
I am very tentatively voting this, I am very milquetoast about it though, neither side has strong arguments and I cannot think of any of my own. I am almost tempted to use a write in, but that is even more risky, as, considering the QM doesn't give trap choices, I may be making a trap myelf.
Not normally
Yes, CRX is traumatized. And as someone working in the social work field while specializing in trauma, I can tell you that confronting these issues (the fact that she's been pressured her whole life to be her mother but better while experiencing horrible types of abuse from said mother) brashly and insensitively can just worsen CRX's current emotional state. And its very likely that LQ will do that, given her social stats.
We can continue along that path with future private sessions, instead of bringing it up in front of Meizhen like @Lena27 said already.As someone who also works with the mentally ill, I don't like this option though because it encourages her to continue down the self-destructive path. The ideal answer would be to neutrally encouraging without pushing her one way or the other. We need to show we are sympathetic to her doing her own thing so that she knows she has a way out even if she is not ready to take it. We shouldn't be pushy, but we should absolutely not encourage her to continue like this.