I made a post back on page 969 that then, when I edited my vote into it, got flagged for moderation (hope that clears up soon). It covered some of what I want to say here, but I do feel the need to respond to:
I feel this is needless doomsaying. I know I'm new to the thread, but I tried to pay attention as I went, and it hasn't seemed to me like Yrsillar has ever put "trap" decisions as the literal first decision of an arc. Those seem to define the approach that needs to be taken, or selects one or another set of encounters that fit with the theme of the arc in general. The argument I quoted seems to be that Yrsillar put "accomplish your goal or shoot yourself in the foot" up front and is just stringing us along in this update without consequences/feedback, which I think is absurd. My reading, on a meta level, is that the first decision point was Yrsillar saying "you can accomplish your goals by getting buddy-buddy with them, but you'll have to restrain your overachiever side so as not to ruffle feathers, or by showing off, in which case you have to do something impressive to actually earn their admiration."
I would have personally more enjoyed reading the former. I feel like Ling Qi's gifts are better suited to the latter (as my in-mod-queue post explained). But I think both, if executed properly, will help us repair our damaged Nobility social link, and so strongly reject the notion that we've squandered anything.
(It is possible, of course, that I will turn out to have been wrong, in which case I shall of course publicly admit to such and update on this new evidence, but the above reflects my best current prediction.)