[] Plan: Spring Cleaning up the Misogyny
-[] Delay the actual wedding.
--[] Until the beginning of spring. (This is a Moderate Request)
-[] Ask that all of your children be allowed to claim dragons or given dragon eggs. (This is a Minor Request)
-[] Request that all your children have the Name Targaryen, with Qoren's heir taking the Martell name upon succession. (This is a Moderate Request)
-[] Request absolute cognatic inheritance of both titles to be spelled out in the agreement. The firstborn inherits the Iron Throne, the secondborn Dorne, regardless of gender. (This is a Moderate Request)
Absolute Cognatic succession and all children being Targs are utterly vital to me. Anything else is frankly just sexist bullshit and would just be fucking stupid to not vote for in a quest with a female main character in a misogynistic setting who is EXPLICITLY defiant in rejecting gender roles. Like there's no way that if THIS Rhae was an actual person she wouldn't be putting that on her demands/suggestion list.
Having these two is just accurate roleplay ESPECIALLY with a Dornish suitor where the former is literally the norm.
Higher ranked mum but have dad's name just because he has a penis and possessing a dick being the most important qualifier for rulership is nothing but sexist bullshit.
Like, set of twins, just born, but making the boy heir over the girl? Like at that stage there is literally no difference other than one has a penis and the other doesn't so you are essentially saying the most important qualification in a leader is having a dick because it's the first and strictest one.
I mean I'm personally iffy on "eldest gets it" already because what if younger sibling better but at least that kind of makes sense in that the firstborn HAS to be heir because at that point no guarantee further children and then running into problem of switching heirs later.
(yes I like some meritocracy in my royal succession shut up - designated heir is the best in CK2/3)
[] Plan: Think of the Children!
-[] Delay the actual wedding.
--[] Until the beginning of spring. (This is a Moderate Request)
-[] Ask that all of your children be allowed to claim dragons or given dragon eggs. (This is a Minor Request)
-[] Request that all your children have the Name Targaryen, with Qoren's heir taking the Martell name upon succession. (This is a Moderate Request)
-[] Request absolute cognatic inheritance of both titles to be spelled out in the agreement. The firstborn inherits the Iron Throne, the secondborn Dorne, regardless of gender. (This is a Moderate Request)
-[] Request control over where all your kids, save Qoren's heir, are raised. (This is a Major Request)
I like this but just don't think the last is necessary combined with the "All Children Dragons" and "All Children Targs" and "Absolute Cognatic Inheritance" ones because these combined implicitly means any children would spend most of their time in Kings Landing and Dragonstone. Like, these make Rhae head of the new family unit being created, so obviously they would be where she is based most of the time.
Also I assume Minor/Moderate/Major requests is SOLELY about Viserys feelings re: suggestions vs being dictated to by daughter and not about actual negotiations because as others have said several of these Qoren could either suggest himself or would eagerly want.
Like all children getting dragons Qoren would be over the moon for and absolute cognatic he'd be in favour of as it harmonises Iron Throne succession with Dorne which is big prestige thing.