How much of Konoha or even Naruto in general actually resembles a military organization other than that it's purpose includes combat?
Individuals who casually shit on or ignore entire armies, the equivalent of high ranking officers going AWOL for years with no punishment, casual relationships between the various officers and their soldiers(jonin-gening), nothing resembling boot camp, no real attempt to mold the genin into proper soldiers other than sometimes teaching them.
Konoha and the villages in general resemble tribes and warriors far more than they do soldiers, and I don't recall the sort of discipline/chain of command situations you seem to be thinking of ever showing up in the show.
Do you think a modern military would tolerate Tsunade going AWOL? Do you think a modern military would allow canon team 10s laziness? Do you think a modern military would allow the sort of insubordination that shows up so damn regularly in the show?
People keep using poor analogy extensions on this, yes.
Konoha is
most similar to a feudal elite military unit, Jounin as full Knights, Genin as Squires and Chunin as something of an untested Knight, with the Kage as the Oligarchic Count and the Ninja Clans as the landowning Baron electors for the Kage title
Under such a system, obedience and loyalty serves as gateways to the higher ranks, and they are tested by highly personal means.
Because if your Jounin Sensei thinks you don't qualify for promotion, you won't ever be. So you must pass personal tests THEY think are important, then they'd recommend you to further testing under their peers(which would be the Chunin promotion exam and whatever is used to qualify Jounins after that).
Its not regimented. The Genin graduation test is not that different to recruit hazing rituals.
Keeping in mind again, most teams pass, despite the tests seeming impossible to each team at the time.
I honestly don´t see pre-chunin-exam Hinata living through such a genjutsu and walking away ok. Please remember Neji talked her into giving up till Naruto had his outburst. She failed in missions again and again , because of lack of confidence. That genjutsu would have fucked her up. This is not canon Kurenai and I highly doubt this was her test or such a fucked up "trust building exercise".
I'm not really seeing that. Hinata's issue is that her values are set at a 45 degree skew from normal. She doesn't value her personal accomplishments and one of the big reasons why Neji got to her was that she's thinking of Hanabi's well being, as well as herself not being worthy.
When it comes to the welfare of others she's always been steadfast...which is going to reflect in a Greatest Fear test if it was identical.
Willing to bet her Greatest Fear is failing others when they need her.
Don't be a lazy schmuck. If you're going to disagree with someone, at least unpack it and explain why. "Nah fam, you wrong" is not an argument, it's a dismissal.
Actually its been explained quite a few times. The personal value/perspective mismatch is such that neither of them can really acknowledge the other's points as valid, so there isn't much point to continuing.
Its like one side is discussing the flavor of MREs being inhumane and the other is discussing the logistic advantages of MREs.
Amusing to watch once....but no more