..But I don't think I've felt this pissed in awhile.
Yeah yeah, personal threads are looked down upon and all that, but i was hoping SB could give me some advice.
I've had this girlfriend for a few months, and we get along pretty well. Were pretty close, but haven't really been sexual because she feels like she's not ready. Despite my male-ness and all that I'm perfectly fine with waiting. Not ready? No problem! Good enough philosophy, right?
Today we were talking and something seemed odd. She told me she had done some thinking over the weekend and decided that we better part ways. We'll, that's a tad depressing, but hey everybody has breakups so not that big of a deal. But something seemed off. She wouldn't give me a solid reason why. We talk abit, she says that I just wasn't 'emotionally mature' enough for her. Without going into details SB really doesn't need, I proceeded to point out, with the support of acouple of mutual friends, that this was bullshit, and contradicted everything she had said or done in the past. Another few minutes of questioning, and her admitting it was an excuse, she admits that she had sex with some random guy over the weekend. She had wanted to stay friends, but I couldn't really talk to her. She claimed she ended it because she didn't want to hurt me, and hid it for the same reason.
My reason for posting this, besides hopeful validation for my frothing-at-the-mouth RAGE, is asking if any other SB'ers have been in the same shoes? What have to done to feel better? What did you do about your partner, just drop them out of your life or is it forgiveable?
Thank you for your time, I really should get to bed.