Come on, TS has said and keeps saying at every chance that we'll get plenty of opportunities before the final choice. Including right at the end of this update! I don't know if there's any way he can make this clearer.Yeah, @Teen Spirit, could you comment on how "final" the decline will be? Could we have a "I am flattered and strongly considering this, but I would like time to consider" or similar
He has also said, or one of the characters said it I don't exactly remember which (same thing in this case), that negotiations would take time, and none more than with Qoren.You could refuse, you reminded yourself. If you didn't like the terms of whatever agreement your father made with Qoren, you could always refuse.
The suggestion of Tyland is imo an awful one because in canon he was deeply deeply sexist. We would be miserable.
I mean he's the Prince of Dorne and you invited him out here. You can't bring him all the way to King's Landing and then say "I'm considering it."
This is not a final decision. Only one to start negotiations, refusing can be done up to the very end.You could refuse, you reminded yourself. If you didn't like the terms of whatever agreement your father made with Qoren, you could always refuse.
In theory, of course. But that will come with headaches of their own. If negotiations are cancelled without good reason, major offense may be taken, which could drag Dorne into the Stepstones mess...This is not a final decision. Only one to start negotiations, refusing can be done up to the very end.
[X] Take His Hand (Begin Marriage Negotiations With Qoren Martell)
Mood, honestly. He is one exceptionally charming man. Though this is still Azel's Qoren and I was hoping for Teen Spirit's.
I'm pretty sure this is impossible, given that Laenor has been dispatched to the Stepstones and we are not going there. In fact, other than talking to Laenor (which is impossible), I think we've done our due diligence. We've heard from Gwayne and Qoren directly. Rhaenys didn't hard-sell her spawn and Lyonel outright dissuaded us from his (he pushed for Laenor but if the update is anything to go by his balance sheet wasn't persuasive). Daddy thinks highly of the Martell match. Johanna's pushing a dark horse we've never considered and will not consider. Randyll's pushing Gwayne. Alicent can work with Qoren, without the weird incestuous vibes that would follow a Gwayne match. What more do we need to know?BUT I am still of the firm opinion that we should talk with all our prospective husbands before commiting, so it is a tough one...
It was both. Though admittedly fairly more Azel's then mine.Mood, honestly. He is one exceptionally charming man. Though this is still Azel's Qoren and I was hoping for Teen Spirit's.
Negotiations will be an ongoing thing so you can absolutely still sound out other options while that's going on and just decline whatever offer Qoren makes at the end. You can't negotiate formally while actual negotiations are taking place though.@Teen Spirit If we started Qoren negotiation now, can we still approach, consider, and negotiate with other candidate while Qoren one is ongoing? Or we can but it is generally frowned upon to do?