What?! I'm pretty sure Heracles would have gladly exchanged his "silver spoon" for living with his family. For every gift he had he was fucked twelve times over. His whole life consisted of bouncing between quests from different gods, most of which he could not refuse, and happening to people. Some of whom he wouldn't have had any beef with if Hera or someone else didn't send him to retrieve something.
And his death follows the same pattern - when he finally thinks that he has a little happiness he gets a torturous end through poison.
Hercules has great propaganda.
Hera's fuckery was only responsible for a fraction of what happened in his life, and his silver spoon is the only reason he made it out of childhood in the first place. The man started adulthood by murdering his music teacher with a lyre for correcting him, and still got into another prestigious mentorship. That set a pattern.
Hercules murdered his way across a good chunk of Greece and the Aegean. He killed one king and his sons and sacked his city for refusing to give him his daughter. He killed another king for not letting him into his kingdom.
He sacked Troy because the then-king owed him horses.
Dude was a Greek hero. He did mighty things. He was also indisputably an asshole.
In Greek mythology, when just badmouthing a god gets you turned into an object lesson, dude was out there stabbing and shooting major gods, and noone follows up because of who Daddy is.
The man injured Ares, Hera and Hades and walked away without harm.
Even his death was his fault.
He had a wife Daeanira, he kidnaps another woman Iole as a wife/concubine, wiping out her entire family to do so.
And in order to keep his love, the wife resorts to desperate measures.
And even after he dies, he still gets turned into a god.