My main criteria is mostly something which meets the following requirements:
-Immediate payout. She's five. Patience is not reliable, something which doesn't give tangible immediate results is harder.
-Longevity. Whatever it is needs to be able to tolerate some rough treatment and be usable more than a handful of times before its tucked away in a storeroom somewhere.
-Fuss. The result shouldn't drive Qingge battier than most parents get and ideally shouldn't require her commitment of time beyond what she already does.
-Musical instruments are a mixed bag.
--Wind and string instruments tend to take a bit more dexterity and practice to get any immediate payout beyond the noise, but they got good longevity and Qingge is fairly likely to teach her the flute anyways.
--Percussion instruments and bells offer more payout, and she pretty much could experiment on her own.
-Books have decent immediate payout, assuming the material is compelling enough, and they have some reusability. Qingge would need to read them to her unless its a picture book, but once she's literate that isn't a problem anymore.
-Art and crafts depends on the craft.
--Painting...well, seen enough kids with a paint set, or crayons or markers or highlighters to know that its probably human instinct to take Thing Which Makes a Mark and Surface Without Marking and doodle all over. It'd be a bit of a headache to clean up after though!
--Wooden blocks likewise, but with less fuss.
--We can disregard sewing, toy cooking sets and the like for now.
-Toys are great but not much of that seen in the vote, probably because they don't inherently suggest a career without some further thought and everyone's getting right on that.
--I'd have expected at least one suggestion of an animated wooden pony that trots around
--Toy weapons are a problem mainly because I'm not sure how Qingge would take it at this age, given the last argument we had.
--Dolls are pretty much universally loved I think.
-Clothing and the like score well on immediate returns, looking pretty and fancy is readily acknowledged to be a nice thing, but she's five, any dress, gloves or shoes are likely stuff she'd grow out of within a year and then never seen again.
-Ornaments have the same issue as toys, though a hairpin, bracelet or brooch are fairly classic gifts.
-If she was a little older I'd probably think a mirror or telescope could work, but still too young to appreciate those much.