As for my read on the current votes, I have a theory:
while both happens, picking the order is kinda picking which one is more important to us, and therefore, to Ling Qi. Which one she prioritizes, and maybe, if we are literal, which one Ling Qi wil lbe eager to go and be there early and spend more time with, and to which one she will go, but be late to, because she was more invested in doing the first one.
Picking [] Family Ties (Qingge, Biyu, Household, Su Ling) earlier means the reunion will take place during the day/morning, meaning bored Biyu will be there and will want to play with floofy tail. It wil llikely either be Biyu focused, or it will have the girls split more in a "LQ chats with Mom while Biyu pesters Su ling in an endearing way". One way or another, I expect Su Ling to become Biyu's favorite non-family, non-servant person sooner or later, especially if this pick happens early.
Picking it later will mean this reunion will take place later at the afternoon, or even at night, which means Biyu will be sleepy or asleep, and the focus of the reunion will be Qingge, and perhaps a Qingge- Su Ling bond might appear. It might be a more emotional/feels-y scene, rather than an amusing, silly one. The scene itself might be shorter, especially with less time to actually chat with Su Ling, due to her having to go back home because it's getting late.
As for the other choice, I feel like going early will mean more bonding with Bao Qian, and maybe establishing some sort of steadier foundation for our business or relationship with him. Being early to a business meeting is prosperous and causes a good impression, while being late to it will give less time for the business part of things to happen. Kinda like the difference between "Miss Ling Qi, thank you so much for agreeing to come meet me this early in the morning" and "Miss ling Qi, greetings. It was no problem waiting for you/ making room to meet you at this late hour". Early pick means more business, therefore more Bao Qian.
Late pick likely means we spend our nightly hours training with our spirits and seeing their progress, letting them see ours and enerally catching up with them, with Bao Qian being a more secondary priority.
This is all conjeture and speculation, of course and I may be enirely wrong, but until someone changes my mind, my read of these votes is:
1 [] Family Ties (Qingge, Biyu, Household, Su Ling): Biyu x Su Ling shenanigans, Ling Qi and mom catch up with stuffs. Then after that, bonding/training time with our spirits with minimal Bao Qian presence.
2 [] Work Out (Zhengui, Hanyi, Bao Qian) : Qingge x Su Ling feels, LQ perhaps increases bonds with either mom or Su Ling, ideally with both, but more likely, with just one. Then, business/bonding with Bao Qian, with our spirits being there and halping, either being adorably earnest (Zhengui, Mostly Gui being a good boi), or messing with Bao Qian in a troll-ish way (Hanyi being a cheeky brat, Zhen being overprotective, and Six just being Six and trolling Ling Qi instead, with witty remarks that fluster her while talking to the young man).
What do you think of my little overthinking?
