Barondoctor
The things I chase come to me.
- Location
- The other side of the mirror
- Pronouns
- He/His/Him
Having been with my wife for five years and married for two and a half, I think we only started both observing certain folks hotness a year ago at most.Being secure enough in your relationship to enthusiastically discuss how hot an unrelated person is is relationship goals. I mean, having a relationship in the first place is also relationship goals for me, but this seems like the sort of cozy trust you want in a relationship.
Your mileage may vary, but I can confirm that the sense of comfort about "yes that person is very pretty but I picked you" is considerably nicer than it might first seem.