We are talking past each other. What evidence is there that you can't use a sufficiently large favor to force a fae into the position? Clever bargaining and binding oaths go both ways, and Dresden's mother was clever, when she wasn't stupid.
What evidence do you have that it is possible?
The Fae arent Harry Potter house-elves that you can push around. Nicodemus can tell you what happens when you forget that.
A godparent, a godmother, is a position of trust where you expect said godparent to use their own best judgement.
You are essentially granting them a blank check to wield influence over the life of one of your children.
You dont want someone in that role who might be minded to do them harm because they dont want to be there.
Nor do you want a godparent whose judgements are....too alien, either.
As far as I understand she deliberately arranged circumstances and timings so he would be born a starborn. That alone casts doubt on her loving him, or at least on her love being conventional. Suffice to say that if you object to my proposals to boost little baby Amanda's stats and abilities to human peak, you should object much more to Margaret arranging for Dresden to be a starborn. That ability, as you pointed out, has a high mortality rate.
Also, as to Dresden seeing her when soulgazing Thomas... What the f*ck? That's some Corpsetalker/Nemesis type soul jacking. Soul gaze doesn't work like that, as I understand it. Dresden couldn'thave seen his mother when soulgazing his brother, only an image of her that his brother had iperceived, as I undersrand. Not unless she somehow left a part of her soul in Thomas. Or how did that work? Anyway, I am calling deeply unreliable narrator on this one.
No it doesnt.
That argument makes about as much sense as claiming that arranging for your child to be born in a particular country for citizenship means that you dont love them.
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We know very little about the circumstances around his birth.
Lash says in White Night that it was Dresden's birth that gave Maggie the strength to leave Lord Raith. Maggie LeFay's sending in Blood Rites says that she is regretful about the burden he bears and her mistake. Thats it.
Everything else is veilled in mystery. Deliberately so.
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My dude, which part of wizard arent you getting?
Dresden Soulgazed Thomas when Thomas claimed to be his brother, and ran into his mother right there, who tells him that she encoded a sending for him there to be triggered by his presence. And then in the Soulgaze, his mother asked for his permission, and passes him an encoded package of knowledge and Power that she made for him.
Yup.
LeFay was a deeply,
deeply scary wizard when she wanted to be, and she was only maybe around Morgan's current age when she died. She had the magical skill to cripple a magically protected kingpin like Lord Raith
while she was dying.
Her enemies only successfully killed her when she was in labor.
If she'd lived to full maturity....Things would have been interesting.
Remember that for all Dresden's infamy, he hasnt lived 10% the lifespan of a canon wizard
In a setting where wizards live at least three hundred years before dying of natural causes in canon, he's the equivalent of an eight year old.
Yes, because she already cam eonce before, and he somehow survived that.
Given that Dresden would not call Mab that way, he disagrees with you.
I don't quite understand where you're getting this idea that anyone thinks she was just someone who owed his mom a favor. Godparent is a recognized position and has actual connotations and responsibilities attached to it. Being a godparent has nothing to do with your species. You have a specific role and specific responsibilities that you are supposed to meet. The fact of the matter is she does the bare minimum a godparent is expected to do.
Before you go anywhere with the inhuman definitions thing no if it was made with a human tongue the Godparent role is a specifically defined role that someone is supposed to take on there's no linguistics games to play here you can't turn someone that you're supposed to watch out for into a dog one it specifically hurts too it's a diminishment in all ways and for an awakened wizard this is triply true. Two you can't purposefully enslave or diminish them which turning him into a fairy or otherwise taking him into the never never does.
Godmother is, as far as I know, a principally Christian religious tradition that we can date to the 2nd century AD.
Whatever else the Fae are in the Dresdenverse, they arent christian, nor do their customs only start after the birth of Christ.
So frankly, you cannot make any such claims or determinations.
How the Fae and the greater magical community understand the role probably bears only superficial resemblance to how the Catholic Church understands the role.
How the Fae do it might not even be the same as how, say, Arabic djinn see it.(yes, a thing in the Ghoul Goblin comics)
Furthermore, you now add individual personal judgements into the mix. Personal preferences, like Lea's fondness for hounds.
Even among humans, judgements can differ; some humans are happy with a child that grows up a garbageman as long as he's happy, while others might see it as wasting their potential if they dont meet some arbitrary standards.
Now expand that to actual nonhumans. Then throw in magic.
Someone like Lea can in good faith make a determination that you might be happy as a hound, or a whale, or a bird, or a tree, and be sincere about it, and have the power to make it happen.
They might literally have friends or associates that have those forms.
Mythology has stories of human to animal/plant transformations as both rewards, mercies and punishments depending on the person. And its not like there arent magical shifters in this universe who spend much of their lives in animal form; ask the Alphas about Tera.