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- Ekaterinburg, Russia
[X] Tell her
There is no doubt in my mind that we do need to tell Mary about this offer of shifting Arcadia to Olympia.
There is, however, doubt in what we want to do with Mary's birth home.
In a way, I think, the way I would have gone about this would have been the following write-in:
[ ] Tell Mary about Adriana's offer to shift Arcadia to Olympia Institutes. Not right now. Not when the wound is so raw. Tell her in a week or so.
-[ ] In the meantime, tell her that this home will be her home again, but you'd like her to wait until the final decision for a week or two.
-[ ] Once you're back on Earth, with Iris, and with a few days downtime to calm down, raise the subject of both Adriana's offer of shifting Arcadia to Olympia, and of how to use Mary's birth home in light of this offer. This is, after all, what she wants for you all as family. And it should be a family decision.
@Snowfire, is this possible?
If Mary declines the offer, it's Vacation Homes for me. If she accepts, it's probably Making a Home or Split the Difference.
There is no doubt in my mind that we do need to tell Mary about this offer of shifting Arcadia to Olympia.
There is, however, doubt in what we want to do with Mary's birth home.
In a way, I think, the way I would have gone about this would have been the following write-in:
[ ] Tell Mary about Adriana's offer to shift Arcadia to Olympia Institutes. Not right now. Not when the wound is so raw. Tell her in a week or so.
-[ ] In the meantime, tell her that this home will be her home again, but you'd like her to wait until the final decision for a week or two.
-[ ] Once you're back on Earth, with Iris, and with a few days downtime to calm down, raise the subject of both Adriana's offer of shifting Arcadia to Olympia, and of how to use Mary's birth home in light of this offer. This is, after all, what she wants for you all as family. And it should be a family decision.
@Snowfire, is this possible?
If Mary declines the offer, it's Vacation Homes for me. If she accepts, it's probably Making a Home or Split the Difference.
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