Dresden will offer help to women in trouble.Harry has the children and women need to be protected before the males mindset.
It is very far from the worst of sexism, but it's there. Especially in the early books. He grows out of it later on.
We've literally seen him getting his damsel in distress button being hit despite Lydia's capabilities.
Thats very much not the same thing as thinking women arent hella dangerous.
Not after Agent Benn, Bianca, Lara Raith, Maeve, all the various female Denarians....
Thats my point.Harry does have a bit of a damsel in distress fixation, but it is not so much that he thinks women are weak as that he feels he has an inherent obligation to protect them anyway. It is literal white knighting that comes from his unusual and traumatic adolescence IMO. As to how he would take you guys taking away his agency, that is up to you guys to judge.
Dude is the guy who cant help himself if a woman asks for help.
He's also the first one to call bullshit on manipulation attempts; recall the scene in Small Favor where Denarian Rosa tries to pull that exact trick on Dresden and Sanya, and Dresden is the only one who actually realizes what she's doing.
Nevermind Tessa eating a pyrofuego a couple pages later after shooting Michael.
Or what happened to Arianna Ortega two books later. Or him shooting Corpsetaker in the back a couple years before.
He doesnt hold back because the oppositon is female.
His spells are rated E for Everyone, as the kids say these days.