I do not get what you are saying. If you are using that charm in combat then something has gone wrong. They want to meet us, and presumably talk to us. Getting the charm will help us there and with Mab or other people and beings.
Sorry if I havent been clear
1)I expect the Eiko meeting to end in violence that they will start.
Thats what I've been prepping for, and that limits the type of charms we can use beforehand
2)This is not going to help with Mab, Im afraid.
Not at our current stat level, even with an Excellenciy. And Mab is enough of a big swinging dick that we'll need our Essence elsewhere.
3)Buying this now spends XP that we are likely to need elsewhere.
And with the new XP model segregating XP into separate pools, we cant compensate by throwing all the XP at Molly if we fuck up the pregame by not buying the actual important things.
We have been using ATB as a standard charm active at all times during social interactions with pretty much everyone. We are very likely to be running Empathy and Etiquette excellencies anyway. NWS is one additional essence point, and the charm use will almost certainly be essence positive as we'll likely recover 2 xp based on what we learn.
Not simultaneously.
We dont have the juice to run both Excellencies continuosly for 20 minutes, and for a formal meeting we're burning Etiquette all the way.
I maintain that you are strongly overestimating Mab. Or you are running under a strongly different idea of what we want out of this meeting than I do. Because for me "we part ways and erase 1 dot Winter enemy fro our char sheet" is more than enough, and we already have multiple ways of doing this, with backups for our backups.
Mab is the most terrifying Incarna we are likely to meet, and Im counting Titans like Ethniu in that number.
I dont think Im overestimating her.
I think you arent paying her sufficient respect for just how many ways she has to ruin our lives.
Im not sure what MAB wants out of this meeting. Thats as important as our wants. More so, possibly.
And as a strategic matter, we need to learn why Winter exists IC, and about the Outer Gates.
Plus spiking the Nemesis infiltration of Winter would allow us to pivot to some of the material world's issues like the Vampire War without worrying about a major breach.