I would appreciate that they told me promptly instead of concealing it from me.
I am
not suggesting we "conceal" this information from her. At no point did I ever imply that. I said we should be discussing this with the Nagoya squads that we are directly working with, with the full expectation that they will be passing on relevant information to Hino.
That is, we are discussing the details with the people for whom these decisions actually matter, and not go over their heads in the chain of command, unless and until it is understood between us that there are considerations and implications that need Hino's direct supervision,
and that that matter is something to be discussed between Mami and Hino, rather than Hino and her squads.
Do you ask the CEO every time you need to adjust resources?
Not every time, but on major decisions and shifts in strategy - yes.
And do you do so without informing the product managers that you're doing so?
It should only become a major decision that needs to go to the CEO after you've already discussed things with the relevant managers and determined that something more significant needs to be done. If you're ignoring them, deciding something needs to be done all on your own, and then going to the CEO to propose the changes without even consulting the other people this is going to affect, well...
It seems to me likely that this will need to be made at the Hino level, but I didn't even specify that. I said: "Contact Hino/Nagoya to give her an update on the current status of the hunt." And in every place I referred to "Hino/Nagoya." Can't we just say that this means we are contacting whatever level of Nagoya that we need to to discuss these issues?
Adjust "her" to "them", and it would be fine for these purposes, I think.
@Kinematics apparently thinks #3 will offend Hino, which I just don't understand.
The offense is not in what is said, but the manner of your interactions. It is "comme il faut", etiquette, respect — for
everyone involved, not just the big amorphous "Nagoya Magocracy" with a picture of Hino pasted on it.
@Kinematics Does that accurately sum up our disagreements? Would you say that with the agreement that "Hino/Nagoya" means talking to whoever the right level of person is, that our only remaining major point of conflict is #3?
Sort of. I think this actually goes back to my original proposal of having a liaison with the Nagoya teams. It was dismissed as not being of sufficient time value for what was being done, but it really gets into a lot of this upkeep issue, of making sure the Nagoya teams are fully informed about what is going on, and now that things are changing, that they be informed about strategy changes, and possible changes in what we need out of them in this cooperative effort. And, if matters escalate to the level of needing to discuss issues with Hino, to arrange for those meetings as needed.
Edit: And for that matter, the gossipmonger is similar, and I really should have put that back in my plan...