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If you wish to discuss staff actions, please do so either in AAPQ or Forum News and Staff Communication. Doing this in-thread only serves to disrupt things further. In addition, 'Trap' has not suddenly become an acceptable term in the time between the previous infraction and the time of your post. Take 50 points and three days off.But it's a public forum, so free speech does apply. it's just that no one is willing to fight it. Besides trap is almost exactly the same as MILF anyway
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To address the questions of the general thread, I'd like to direct your attention to this quote from Strypgia.
As I said above, if you wish to ask questions or dispute staff actions, there are places to do that. They are not in this thread. I'd prefer to not have to come back into this thread for a third time, so let's all get back on topic, please.
What is the proper term? The moderator didn't bother explaining an alternative they would find unoffensive. Cause I can't think of a term to describe the specifics without describing the specifics, and the offensive term used does cover the specifics quickly and simply.
Anyone can find anything offensive when there is no alternative to look at.
Because neither of you have prior Rule 5 infractions, I'm feeling a bit lenient here. I'm only giving the both of you a staff notice for this, but please be more mindful in the future. If someone else is continuing a derail, report, don't reply.There is no proper term from my understanding. Feminine guy or your two word alternative of choice is the closest I've heard.
To address the questions of the general thread, I'd like to direct your attention to this quote from Strypgia.
There is no equivalent term that can be swapped out for 'trap' to make the kind of 'jokes' made in this thread to be unoffensive, because the meaning behind the comment is inherently hateful. You cannot plug and play away the exact wording of a joke to somehow find an acceptable variant that means the same thing. As long as the punchline remains either gay panic or transphobia, such a 'joke' will still fall afoul of the same rules.Trap is a slur we don't allow on SV. Yes, it's a slur, yes, it's been prohibited here for literally years now, and it's even specifically used in the rules as an example. We've had Staff and regular posters have that screamed at them IRL as an insult and worse, so it's not just a fluffy anime term because it's used that way on some sites or forums.
This has come up before. I'm just going to reuse the words one of our directors used in a similar case a while ago: The term isn't a mystery. A lot of the trans people we have on SV are themselves otaku and familiar with the term, the character type it refers to and so on. It's not some mystery that they, or us for that matter, had never encountered before.
Moreover because we are familiar with the term we can say that the idea that it's not a bad term is somewhat naïve. Even setting aside that it's a gay panic joke where the gay panic has subsided somewhat, the character type itself - the otoko no ko - is very often used in pornography that sexualizes young boys or is pretty much rape. It's not all Juns and Totsukas. Moreover, it is not uncommon for transwomen to be treated like they're actually crossdressing men who catch men in insidious gay sex traps, so they're understandably sensitive about this. Considering the inherently negative connotation in the word 'trap', its origins as a gay panic joke, and the concerns of a significant portion of our userbase, we don't allow the word to be used.
As I said above, if you wish to ask questions or dispute staff actions, there are places to do that. They are not in this thread. I'd prefer to not have to come back into this thread for a third time, so let's all get back on topic, please.