Ok, so I don't know anything about MLP. I'm just here for Alivaril writing anything, but, if changelings feed off love, why don't they just like...not be evil? Like sure, I guess its easier to get in the door to be loved by shape-shifting, but it seems way easier to lose it by being discovered than just like...being honest? Is there more going on or is this a children's show villain just being kinda dumb?
One of the most prominent side characters (a zebra witchdocter) got her introduction in an episode about not judging others based on appearance. Her appearance when she first walked into town, I should point out, was her just wearing a full-body cloak... and it had the citizens of Ponyville fleeing in terror and boarding up their houses. A continuous theme throughout the show is that for a kid's cartoon, there's a lot of racism and fear of anyone who doesn't conform to what most ponies are used to. Sunset is wrong in quite a few ways about the mentality of the average pony, but she isn't wrong about how easy they are to scare and how...
unwise, their decision-making is at that point.
It also doesn't help that while Changlings look really cool from our perspective, they're basically bugs in the rough shape of ponies. And, uh...
well, while evolution made them powerful,
it did not make them look friendly. No, we don't know why their limbs look like Swiss cheese. Combine how their base form looks with them being emotivevores (it should be pointed out that consuming love from an unwilling/unaware pony drains them
physically)
and shapeshifters, and you end up with with something that is
very scary to the average pony even before you start spreading rumors.
Of course, the main contributor to incredibly poor Changling-Pony relations is Chrysalis, who is the Changling Queen. Who has
ALWAYS been the Changling Queen, and is the literal mother of all other Changlings. Chrysalis' main goal, beyond anything else, is conquering the world, with her childrens' wellbeing a distant second. It's not that she's dumb, it's that she prioritizes control and domination beyond anything else. That isn't to say there
aren't Changlings under her control (There's an unnamed Changling background character in a wedding, dubbed by the fanbase as "Kevin"), but the vast majority have been conditioned to serve their Mother/Queen/Goddess unquestionably and that the best way for them to thrive is to dominate everyone else and use them as food. And ponies, with their racism and (by now justified) paranoia, only reinforce that worldview.
EDIT: Damn it, ninja'd.
And yeah, the "redeemed" Changlings look terrible, and it kind of undermines the message that you shouldn't judge someone based on their appearance/race if they change their skin color "because they're good now".