The thing that got me wasn't so much that Superman didn't find another way, but that the movie didn't really show him trying other approaches. He fought for awhile then he reached his breaking point.
Superman should be someone who always tries to find another way, to reach for the best resolution whether or not he succeeds. The famous Doomsday fight had Superman try and get DD away and get punished for it and Doomsday reaching Metropolis despite clear heavy effort to the contrary. It's not about whether it works, but intent and what it shows of the character. MoS didn't really show enough of that.
People who think Superman always gets a contrived good resolution don't read enough of the comics, but regardless that's not the point of most of the complaints.
Also, I find the killing thing (which, btw, has happened in comics before) secondary to the visual storytelling of the fight, which did not show Superman actively minimizing the damage as much as he could. It was much more 'straight superbrawl' rather than 'I am actively doing what I can to try and stop all this damage I'm just not succeeding.' Again, intent matters, and the Marvel films have been more active and more successful at portraying characters as trying to stop casualties.
I'm quoting Q99 because his post is the first in the queue, but I'm moreorless addressing a lot of broad points because brought up in this thread.
I've mentioned this before in another thread, but in
Man of Steel, Superman consistently gets his arse handed to him. Not even a full
day had passed between his first ever fight - not even first ever
superhuman fight, but first ever
fight - in Smallville and his subsequent duel with Zod in Metropolis. Sure, he's saved people from school buses, from exploding oil rigs, from spaceship, etc., but he has no experience fighting anyone, never mind trying to save people while being consistently turned into a human-shaped ragdoll physics simulator. Whereas almost every time MCU heroes fight in a situation where they need to keep collateral damage low, they consistently and conveniently find opponents with all the durability and danger of tissue paper (although the Iron Man VS Hulk fight in
Age of Ultron was a pretty good exception). By contrast, Superman fought an opponent who, for all intents and purposes, was pretty much better at combat in every way, at a location of his opponent's choosing, which happened to be a major metropolitan center.
I mean, sure, you could argue that "giving Superman enemies too powerful for him to fight and minimize collateral damage" was a bad idea, and given what people expect out of a
Superman story, I guess I can accept that. But I think the big part of what
I liked about
Man of Steel was the honesty in which they portrayed the damage that would be incurred when individuals that can achieve supersonic flight, whom bullets bounce off of, and who can shoot laser beams from their eyes end up in a fight. Battles in the MCU tends to be intensely sanitized, exemplified with little things like intensely underpowered weapons and galactic artifacts that look like they have the yield of a hand grenade, alien invaders in New York City with less combat potential than a modern helicopter gunship (which is probably why the film adamantly refuses to actually let them show up, instead hilariously going straight for the nuclear option), with the three rogue helicarriers
all conveniently falling into the Potomac instead of on an urban center, and so on and so forth.
Which is fine, really. I get the idea of escapist heroic fantasy, of being able to "kick ass and take names" and assuming there isn't a massive trail of debris and dead bodies that don't get explored until a future film where the producers decide it's time to talk about some heavy themes, but mostly so they can set up a conflict between the ensemble cast. I get that we want to gloss over the fact that trying to just decapacitate someone instead of killing them in a serious life-or-death fight is actually
extremely difficult, and that writers contrive coincidences for the nearly-invulnerable Superman because that's his narrative theme, his storyarc. In spite of what I said above, I
do like the Marvel Cinematic Universe and have watched almost all of the films (and, by contrast, I have watched very little of the DC Expanded Universe). But I also respect
Man of Steel for doing something
different and
honest with its fight chereography. You can't tell me that there's a fight between two metahumans who fly faster than sound, jump through buildings, and create craters just by falling out of the sky, and then tell me "oh, and they maybe destroyed an abandoned building under construction or something" without making it wish-fulfillment fantasy. (Which, like I said before, is
fine, but I appreciate that
Man of Steel tried something different.)
As for Superman...Superman doesn't kill, it is simple convention. MoS was, in my opinion, a miserable slog that really stopped being a Superman Movie when Superman misused his powers on the Trucker Asshole, much less when he killed Zod. Superman is a character who is all about how he should use his Powers. He is a man who can do almost anything, he can destroy planets, Move faster then the speed of light, his power is theoretically infinite. Superman doesn't kill people, and he doesn't bully or use his powers for petty revenge and pleasure, he uses his powers to help who he can when he can. He is a man taught to have responsibility for his powers, and needs to be a role model, him killing Zod...understandable given the contrived circumstances I suppose...but...that ain't Superman, that's bad writing.
I think Clark Kent "misusing" his powers on a truck had a lot to do with the fact that Clark was not yet Superman. He was a well-meaning but troubled guy who was literally drifting across the North American continent, picking up odd jobs, figuring out his meaning in life with full knowledge that he's an alien with no idea of where he came from. He was a young adult who had not yet developed a full moral code that would attach itself to the Superman brand, but a lost young adult doing the best he could. You call it miserable; I call it character development, and that's probably what made me not snore through a
Superman film.
The movie was a sour, unpleasant slog through grimderp angst that aped the story and cast of Superman while completely missing the point. Its message is an unpleasant one, it's characters are cutouts or just plain unlikeable, and the only thing super about it is its superficial understanding of the characters whose names and faces it stole for the cast.
The core idea of Superman is that doing the right thing is working to make things better for others (and no, neck-snapping in a ridiculous contrivance followed by smiles all around doesn't qualify so don't even bother), to stick to principles (Truth, justice, and the American way ring a bell?)- and that life isn't a grim pointless angstfest- it's a work in progress. There's always hope, people are generally inherently good and worth helping- and in their own way, everyone has something that makes them every bit the hero superman is. All that cape flapping and punching giant robots? That's window dressing. A cape does not Superman make, nor does laser vision. It's his attitude. Superman only matters because he's the best of us- the man of tomorrow, the person each of us can live up to be- not because he's a flying brick with laser eyes.
If you want Superman in a sentence, he's the kind of hero who'd unironically rescue a cat out of a tree with a smile. Just for the sake of making things better. This "hard man making hard decisions while hard" nonsense isn't just wrong, it's a non sequitur for a genuine Superman story. Superman is about rejecting that as defeatism. Finding another way. Not settling for the bare minimum or not even trying to help, but doing the best you can and being content in doing it because it IS the right thing to do.
The Snyder superman isn't a hero. He isn't even a good person. He isn't even particularly brave- he's an apathetic, reactionary, callous mess- hell, I'd say Shinji Ikari would have made a better Superman than the character we saw presented as such because Shinji Ikari actually cares about something or someone and has some measure of principles and genuine compassion!
MoS's message is that there's no way to make things better. People given a chance to make things better won't care enough to want to. Doing good doesn't feel good. It's okay to take the easy way out and kill people rather than finding a better way. Saying MoS's actual contents is about hope is false advertising. And frankly, MoS's whole message is bullshit.
The Synder films are running around wearing the flayed hide of stories and characters they clearly don't understand, and their replacement storyline and themes replaced hope and optimism with pointless cinematic masturbation over contrived, sulky grimderp and pseudo-"realism" that's less realistic in terms of its characters than the actual cartoons.
The only reason talking with you will amount to nothing is that you're not listening to anything anyone has to say.
Did we watch the same film? You know, the one where Clark Kent as a boy saves his classmates in a bus accident and then tells his father that he couldn't have let them die? The one where he saves people from an oil rig and stops a tower from collapsing onto a rescue helicopter despite the fact that he wasn't sure he could've survived that (requiring Aquaman to provide some off-screen help)? The one where he works up the courage and motivation to oppose Zod once he finds out that the latter intends to genocide humanity to recreate Krypton on Earth? The one where two villains at separate times tell him that they will deliberately target "a million more" humans because they know he cares, that it's his weak spot?
Yes, Clark Kent mopes. But that's character development.
Man of Steel is an origin story in which he is Superman for literally less than a day. It's a story of "doing the right thing is difficult, it's sometimes heartbreaking, the world is sometimes too complex for simple solutions, but you try to do the right thing anyways
because it's the right thing". It's trying to be more than an escapist superhero film, moving into the realm of a character study. And maybe that's not optimistic enough because a
Superman story is supposed to be high-optimism and low-drama, which is okay. But I think your description is an incredibly willful misinterpretation of what is actually portrayed in that film.