Some thoughts:
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2. A lot of people in this thread seem giddy about the idea of Azula fighting an Agni Kai against Ozai. I think that's a terrible idea. One consistent thing about Azula in this quest is that she's been trying to avoid dueling and fighting her brother, with her family. It's one of the most positive parts of her character. And now everyone wants her to fight and possibly kill yet another family member, someone who had a far greater effect on her character than Ozai? People want a 14 year old girl to fight her own father, who was her only parental figure for half of her life? It would not be a good experience for her at all, and it wouldn't even solve half her problems if she won, because she'd still have to deal with Zuko and/or Iroh wanting the throne and not trusting her, not to mention the Gaang having it out for her.
Another thing to consider about the Ozai-Azula relationship is that Ozai was a terrible, abusive father, but he's also the only reason Azula ever got to be Azula. The Fire Nation is a patriarchal society, and we don't exactly see many (or any, aside from Azula) women in political or military leadership positions.* We in fact don't see any female Fire Nation soldiers in the Earth Kingdom at all. From what we know of Ursa, and of Mai's life, the expectation for elite women seems to be that they should focus on serving their families, fathers, and husbands and on raising the children.** Part of the conflict between Ursa and Azula was probably over Azula not wanting to do that. The only reason Azula seems to have been allowed to develop who she was, for better or worse, into potentially "the greatest leader in Fire Nation history," to quote her aspirations, is because Ozai was willing to effectively treat her as his son and heir. Ozai was critical to Azula becoming who she became, and without him, she might have something like Mai's life, at best. Again, he's still an abusive asshole who really screwed her up, but he also opened up a real possibilities for her. For Azula to duel him would be very traumatic for her.
*Mai and Ty Lee seem to have partially be exceptions, but that's only because they're Azula's favorites.
**Arguably one of the reasons Ty Lee ran away to the circus is that she was running away from this.
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I agree here. If there's one thing which stands out about Azula's canon familial relationships is that she does all the work and gets little or nothing in return. She does all the work in her relationship with her father and dedicates her whole life to serving him, she is arguably still trying to be Ursa dutiful daughter years after Ursa left and many years after Ursa emotionally abandoned her, and she even does all the work to try to reconcile with her brother in Book 3 and gets nothing but betrayal in return. In this quest, she's been doing all the work to try to avoid conflict with her brother, one way or another, only to have it fail again and again. The idea that she needs to try even harder and give up even more to avoid her brother trying to duel her doesn't sit right to me.Okay so hey. I know this is a narrative quest and that my husband can't really answer this but it seems like the powers that be in this quest, whatever force is controlling the rewinds is trying to get Azula to essentially give up on the throne and give it to Zuko. And, I don't really vibe with that. Hoping there is more to the lesson she's supposed to be learning, lmao.
2. A lot of people in this thread seem giddy about the idea of Azula fighting an Agni Kai against Ozai. I think that's a terrible idea. One consistent thing about Azula in this quest is that she's been trying to avoid dueling and fighting her brother, with her family. It's one of the most positive parts of her character. And now everyone wants her to fight and possibly kill yet another family member, someone who had a far greater effect on her character than Ozai? People want a 14 year old girl to fight her own father, who was her only parental figure for half of her life? It would not be a good experience for her at all, and it wouldn't even solve half her problems if she won, because she'd still have to deal with Zuko and/or Iroh wanting the throne and not trusting her, not to mention the Gaang having it out for her.
Another thing to consider about the Ozai-Azula relationship is that Ozai was a terrible, abusive father, but he's also the only reason Azula ever got to be Azula. The Fire Nation is a patriarchal society, and we don't exactly see many (or any, aside from Azula) women in political or military leadership positions.* We in fact don't see any female Fire Nation soldiers in the Earth Kingdom at all. From what we know of Ursa, and of Mai's life, the expectation for elite women seems to be that they should focus on serving their families, fathers, and husbands and on raising the children.** Part of the conflict between Ursa and Azula was probably over Azula not wanting to do that. The only reason Azula seems to have been allowed to develop who she was, for better or worse, into potentially "the greatest leader in Fire Nation history," to quote her aspirations, is because Ozai was willing to effectively treat her as his son and heir. Ozai was critical to Azula becoming who she became, and without him, she might have something like Mai's life, at best. Again, he's still an abusive asshole who really screwed her up, but he also opened up a real possibilities for her. For Azula to duel him would be very traumatic for her.
*Mai and Ty Lee seem to have partially be exceptions, but that's only because they're Azula's favorites.
**Arguably one of the reasons Ty Lee ran away to the circus is that she was running away from this.