- Location
- Pennsylvania
Alright, so, now that I'm back on my computer I'd like to expound a bit vis a vis the benefits and drawbacks of both:
To put it simply, not going after her is conservative. There is little chance of a blow-up, or a blow-out. But in that conservatism, your wife might put on yet more masks, more air; and she will withdraw, hide more in her shadows.
But to go for her now is to clear the air. She will not have time to think how best to word it, how best to speak it, how best to make herself look, only raw emotion and truth, truth like she has not spoken for some time. Though this will birth-- almost undoubtedly-- a storm, the devastation wrought as such will open space for new love, born on only-- and entirely-- truth to bloom.
Well when you phrase it like that then there is only one option then:
[X] "You have an odd definition of Malicious!" Rip out of her grasp-- you will have explanation of this...this betrayal.