I just came across this thread, so I figured I'd try and comment a bit on some of the things here that haven't come up.
Hephaestus is a lot more moral than Hades.
Eh, Hephaestus had his personality flaws too. Overall, to my knowledge, he was probably about a shade worse than Hades by modern morals, but still well above Zeus or Poseidon.
And there was the thing with Actaeon. Though as per the schema I proposed, they were both justified.
Also, it's best not to catch her naked, on purpose or by accident.
That was totally baller.
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Oh, I'm sorry. Am I supposed to believe that was the one man in all of Greek Mythology who totally has the best of intentions when it comes to women?
There's a thing that's mentioned in one myth regarding not just this incident, but also some others similar to it. Apparently when Cronos was the Big God on Olympus, he put into place a divine law that punishment will befall any mortal who looks upon a deity naked without permission, and set the Furies to enforce it.
One version of the tale of Tiresias has him be blinded by accidentally walking in on his mother and Athena bathing in a spring (in this version, poor Tiresias was just a child walking the family dogs when it happened). Athena blinds him, gets chewed out by Tiresias' mother Chariclo, and then says that she can't restore his vision, but she can give him some blessings, like a staff that allows him to walk as easily as if he still had his vision, and the ability to interpret the omens spoken of in birdsong.
Anyone know any times Hephaestus was a bastard?
I don't know all that many stories about him, so the worst I know off the top of my head is the time he was being cheated on so he made a trap that grabbed those involved, then had the family come around to look and laugh before letting them go.
To my awareness, the family laughing instead of being justly angered was not the intended reaction (incidentally, IIRC, Aphrodite took the whole thing in stride, Ares was ashamed of the situation).
-Hera order Aphrodite to marry him, because she was worried if she didn't get married quickly, Zeus would sleep with her.
Not that it stopped Zeus. But then again...
Also relatively patient with Aphrodite's infidelity, which if I remember certain stories, endeared him to her, though their marriage was obviously not the most serene.
... There's one tale where he eventually gets divorced from her and marries one of the Graces.
But I do not recall any tellings of Greek myths where Hephaestus and Aphrodite were happy with the marriage (Aphrodite flat-out didn't like Hephaestus, and Hephaestus was understandably upset with her cheating on him).
-He made Aphrodite magic jewellery that enhanced her existing seductive wiles to full-on irresistible mind control levels.
I've seen discussion on the subject that suggests that the 'magic girdle' may have been a misinterpretation, given some texts about it describe it as being removed 'from Aphrodite's breasts' when she loans it to Hera, it may have been more of a golden breast-band. And that Hera wanted it because it would emphasize her boobs better to draw Zeus' attention away from his other lovers, rather than because it had magic seduction powers.
-He tried to rape Athena, but she did...something so that instead he impregnated his great-grandmother Gaea.
During the struggle, all the writhing and twisting against one another while Hephaestus was trying to get into position lead to him ejaculating before he could get it in. Cue Athena managing to push Hephaestus away, wiping the mess he left on her legs up with some cotton, and chucking it off of Olympus...
... and the semen-soaked cotton landing on the ground below and managing to impregnate Gaea, who was
not happy with the situation (the gods of Olympus keep bringing ruin onto every child she births that she gets attached to, so she
refuses to raise, bond with, and then be forced to mourn another one once the gods ruin this one's life too. So since it was Athena's littering that got Gaea pregnant, Athena is going to take responsibility and tend to the baby, dammit!
And so begins the story of King Erechthonius of Athens.
And I've seen some versions of the whole legend that have it be that Poseidon tricked Athena and Hephaestus to set the whole thing off in the first place: Hephaestus was making some new armaments for Athena, and Poseidon lead Athena to believe that her thanks and gratitude was all Hephaestus wanted in payment, while telling Hephaestus that Athena was willing to pay him 'with her love'.
Probably, the only story I know of about her is the one where she let Dionysus have her throne, cuz she was content to sit by the fire. But AIUI, that's not an actual myth ever recounted by any Classical source, it's basically a scholarly fanon to explain the confusion over whether or not she or Dionysus are counted among the Twelve Olympians.
Hestia doesn't have as clear characterization in general or show up in many myths in an active role. She may be the nicest major goddess by default but it's more because we don't know a ton about her comparatively, unlike Hades who's in a lot of stories and is pretty chill. It is in her favor that she apparently kept out of most of the god family squabbles.
To my knowledge...
Hestia made an arrangement that any sacrifice to the gods had to have an initial share of the offering be devoted to her before the others.
She swore an oath of virginity to avoid a fight when Poseidon and Apollo were both trying get her to marry one of them.
And she was almost raped by Priapus, but the attempt was foiled when another deity's donkey steed started braying and woke her up before Priapus could get his oversized prick into place (there's another version of the story where Priapus was targeting a nymph, Lotis, but it ends more-or-less the same way).
and he even forgave Ixion the Kin-Slayer (of course Ixion repaid him by trying to rape Hera).
A bit of context: Zeus had previously seduced Ixion's wife (Zeus' form of the day: a stallion), and may or may not have impregnated her in the process. And even then, after Zeus and Hera trick Ixion into sleeping with a cloud nymph disguised as Hera instead, Zeus is initially willing to let Ixion go with the false belief that they were now even, but Hera was worried that Ixion would horribly tarnish her reputation if he went boasting about his "success".
Of course, Ixion
was foolish enough to boast of having banged Hera, so
that is when Zeus brings down divine punishment on him.