Oh Pipeman, you silly goose. We merely need the power to stalemate a 3CD like Ligier (he's a 3CD, right?), which will hopefully be accomplished in a year or so. Then we can marry whoever we want, and laugh at any nay-sayers.
That's more than a bit of a ridiculous assertion.
Marriage or at least betrothal is too powerful a card not to play, if we're really going for control over the Realm which all choices so far have been directed towards one way or another, and we outright told Zao we'd acquiese to any of his plans in exchange for his permission to tell Moon the full story about the Anathema stuff.
Given that he told us not five minutes earlier that we're going to have to marry some Dynast anyways, refusing that later on would mean Uly deliberately ignored this and told Zao he'd be willing to cooperate anyways and that's not something I can accept as a key facet of his character.
Well, I suppose there's still a lot to be said for making the best of the time Uly and Moon have left so to speak, but I can't help but feel the attraction to the romantic part of that vote is more than a bit tainted by it only delaying the demands the reality of their situation has of the two of them and, unless we really need to flee again, that's what this is.
We don't know for sure what the future will hold. Cruel reality often crushes beautiful dreams, but even that reality must yield before the power and unbreakable will of the Exalted. All we can do is act in accordance with Ulyssian's character. Dynastic revelry might yield benefits, but it's hardly the option that comes most naturally to Ulyssian, and I'd argue that it's much less beneficial than training. Avoiding the worst aspects of Realm culture in favor of building on highly productive habits is hardly a bad thing. We defied Zao for the right to associate with Moon, so we've already decided not to let external factors stand between us.
If we were going to ignore Zao's demands anyways, we should have just ignored him and told Moon anyways like I voted to.
But that's not what we did.
We negotiated, made concessions, accepted that he was right and only got to keep associating with Moon because both of us deemed it a sensible course of action after all.
We did not defy Zao, we agreed with his central argument but convinced him of our approach to the Moon situation.
Going back on that the moment we actually have to be engaged to someone else would be the kind of disingenious and spineless decision making I absolutely cannot accept from Uly.
Anyway, establishing a precedent of holding ourselves separate from and above the frivolities of Dynastic society could work out in our favor, if we were to carefully develop our reputation. Recall Nathor and the option we had to leverage a standoffish nature into inspirational magnetism.
Well, this does kind of assume the damage control run by Nilul or something like that not only happens but is also successful, because otherwise the whole "Pissing all over our House and alienating the rest of our friends at least a bit" thing still argues for Revelry of some kind.
A single evening of reveling does not preclude us from engineering such an image anyways, especially not since there are different degrees of revelling.