Hrm. Thinking on this further, I don't want to act against the wishes of most of our squad.
But I do want to go the the tourny, and I think best waifu Siegelinde would benefit from going, even if she thinks she doesn't want to. So I'm updating my vote to
[x] Postpone the decision.
-[x] Try and convince Stephanie and Siegelinde that going to the tourney would be good for them
I'll admit that I'm not sure what Stephanie would be convinced by, but for Siegelinde it's obvious: Half her reason for becoming a Caldrian merc is so she can have a more prestigious position from which to enact her social agenda. Does she think she can do this without actually interacting with people? If she really wants to become a mover and shaker, having increased fame and respect can only be a benefit. And it'll make her parents happier if she's seen taking the time to rub elbows with the other up and coming mercs.
Also, we are becoming well known as adorable and friendly, if it would help her with her goals, we could help her meet people. It may not come easily to us, but we're not blind to the effect we have on people.
I'm not sure what Stephanie is really after, so it's harder to understand her goals, but she knew she might end up going there no matter what, so we'll see what happens when we talk to her more.