Anyone at the court is there in an official capacity though, it's an exclusive invite only white elephant.
I guess the question is does the option as written mean we ignore what the combined Etiquette skills of Tsubaki and Auntie would say about marching in to the court and presenting her as our right hand woman and someone you should treat like an equal all you samurai that are now sharpening swords and looking very cross, or do we need a write in to specifically define her relationship vis a vis high court functions: namely that she's an intermediary, the creature we've contracted to provide entertainment since oh woe is us, brand new clan, all we have are expensive, talented young women to sing you songs and listen to your every woe while you wait for Spot-face McDaimyo and if by chance something you want to ask isn't something you could
ever possibly raise with a real person, well that's fine, because she doesn't count. Right?