I've got to sift through the arguments made for the persuasion choice, so the continuation of that line will have to wait a while longer. However, I do have a quite important decision point for you, one that may inform your choice of sword and truth:
Zao has many plans for you, but of course it is ultimately your cooperation that makes them work. He sees three primary options, and you can pick which suits you. For now, we will focus on the six months to follow.
[ ] Swift Deployment. There is no substitute for experience, it is said. Well, you've little enough experience with Exalted combat in this Age, though you do have Odyssial's memories to draw upon. Still, that your body is the same does not mean your nerves have developed to his extent. Without the context of combat, training is much less useful.
There are countless areas where a single Exalt's strategic intervention could increase the sum of your resources or delay Creation's fall. Of these, many are time-sensitive. Chances to do good fade away every day as, one by one, Creation's defenders and decent peoples are overwhelmed. As soon as the festivities are over and the guests have left, have Zao send you on a mission.
*You will have a brief opportunity to talk with your friends before going
*The mission will have high stakes; to send you otherwise would be a waste. If you fail in your inexperience, thousands, perhaps millions of people will likely suffer and die.
*Moderately increases the effects of training in the next few months.
*As you will not always be at the Academy, Zao's enemies are less likely to attack it without cause, especially if you make it hard to determine when you are and aren't there.
*You will have the chance to use your power in a meaningful context. Should you succeed, Creation is safer or you and your allies have secured valuable resources.
*This gets you plot XP fast.
[ ] Develop Connections. Perhaps the most uncomfortable of the options, for Odyssial. Though you will spend most of your time training and studying warfare, tactics, and organization, you will also make full use of your newfound status to develop connections with your House and the Realm. This includes attending, ugh, parties. Just think of it as training, Ulyssian. Social training, the most useless and ineffectual type. But necessary. Yes, necessary.
*You will face true trial and tribulation in the course of these events.
*Your social skills will likely improve enormously.
*Even Ulyssian is unlikely to mess up so that he will reveal himself as Anathema, though who knows, really?
*A visible presence in high society is an easy target for assassins, so at least you'll have something to do at parties, if you're (un?)lucky
*Training time is not significantly slowed by your endeavors socially, unless you want it to be by committing extra time.
*You will be much-better positioned to assume a high-ranking legitimate role.
*May accelerate Zao's timetable for getting you real power, or allow you to reach Admiral-level positions quickly in other areas (House Sesus, the Magistracy, the Deliberative, the Legions, the Immaculate Order)
*You will receive plot XP for attending social events. What stronger incentive to socialize can you get?
[ ] Power & Security. The Academy is not safe, but it is safer than almost anywhere else. You are strong, but you are not strong enough to be confident in your survival given any mission. Training can rectify that. With the fate of nations at stake, it makes no sense to act recklessly or attempt to develop atrophied social skills. What you need is focus, dedication, and precision. Training may not be the same as true combat, but it can replicate it damn well, with Numida as a healer. With laserlike focus, you will get everything you can out of Zao and Ivory's tenure as instructors. You will prepare for the end of the world with the competence, impartiality, and efficiency that such a task demands. You will not fall prey to optimism, loneliness, or excess lust for glory. And when the time comes to change the world, you will have an actual plan, which has been reviewed by actually experienced Exalts, to do so.
*Increased favor with Zao.
*You will focus on your strengths: infiltration and exfiltration, combat, and strategy / tactics.
*You will train to a highly capable level before risking your life on outside ventures, thus minimizing such risk. You are likely, (but not guaranteed) to be able to spend all your XP efficiently before you graduate.
*This does not mean that you will necessarily be safe; the Academy may be itself infiltrated or attacked, but you will be in one of the safest areas in Creation.
*You will have "plenty" (relatively speaking) of time to spend with your friends, even if most of it is training alongside them.
*Slice-of-life boarding school drama Relatively low horrific tragedies Significantly reduced chance of Zao dying, probably, maybe? Okay, probably not, but a man can hope right I mean you can never be sure