Given the sudden onslaught of "I'll Face Myself" votes I figure now would be a good time to argue against it:
Make no mistake, I want to get rid of Spoiled, I voted for Nameless to Try to Change, after all, but this isn't the way to do it.
First off, I want to remind people that this option doesn't see Nameless bettering himself under his own efforts, but he's essentially asking Aurelia to use her undiminished charisma to change him, and by taking her away from her own work at that. This will not be the last time to get rid of Spoiled, but this does show Nameless impatience in trying to change immediately through elven charisma than taking it slower.
Also, doing so immediately, right now, without any sort of consultation from our Lieutenants will definitely hurt our standing with Xiaoling. She's still coming to terms that we're married now - if we just get rid of Spoiled (the key trait that she and Nameless have in common) without at least talking to her first than that will negatively impact her Loyalty. And because she didn't hear from Nameless that this is something he wants of his free will than she is only left to assume the facts herself - and on their own the facts don't look good. After all, prior to coming here and marrying Aurelia Nameless did not seem to dislike himself, but now he wants to change and is willing to go so far as to get Aurelia to change him? She'll definitely be left thinking that the Elven maiden tricked/convinced him into it.
Also, and I wasn't sure I wanted to bring this up as it stinks of fearmongering, but I'm going to say it anyway - the possibility of Xiaoling leaving us to go back home needs to be considered.
Think about it - she doesn't have fanatic Loyalty like Suizhen, she also is not a orphan or homeless like the other girl. She made up some sort of excuse to initially join Nameless but by now I think it's clear that she stayed by his side through it all because she liked him - definitely as a friend and possibly with the intent to marry him at a later date. But with the option of marrying him (at least as the first wife) off the table and him suddenly changing behind her back I think Xiaoling's Loyalty ill definitely be tested. If we are going to ask Aurelia to change us I at least want to speak to Xiaoling first and do some preemptive damage control.
I at least want to touch back base with both our Lieutenants before we do something irreversible.