If you are an Abyssal who wants to be a good person and you are thinking about soulsteel, your quandry is that it is the optimal choice for your equipment but it is built on human suffering and horror. Therefore, you have to choose between being as powerful as you can possibly be and being a good person.
The two are mutually exclusive options. This is intentional. That is the point of it being a quandry. If you can get Chinese Knockoff Soulsteel that works just as well but isn't made from torturing sapient ghosts, being a good person is not a difficult and meaningful choice.
I...guess?
Honestly I'm really not crazy about soulsteel in general, and I speak in my capacity as Just Some Dude Who Doesn't Know Shit. It's so weird and
binary, you either use it and directly participate in the unconscionable torture of innocents or you don't and you...don't. It might as well not be there, you just have to kinda awkwardly ignore the faces of the damned moaning inside some dude's armor whenever you pass someone with it. And that's a shame honestly? It's supposed to be the major magical material of an entire realm/Splat and instead it's just some weird shit that you only use if you're playing some edgelord asshole. Which sure that's
some people but it's still like-
Abyssal: "My sword's screaming in pain."
ST: "Yeah, it's gonna do that."
Abyssal: "Can I have...one that
doesn't?"
ST: "Yeah but it won't be as good, so are ya willing to be a monster or do you wanna lock yourself out of all the high end stuff~?"
It's like some asshole tax. There's no way to really
engage with it, no way to leap off into anything with it. It's not a story, its not even a quandary tbh it's just "nice shit you can't have lol loser". And while I'm generally onboard with being good requiring some kind of sacrifice, being more than just getting a few Paragon Points instead of the cash bonus, I just don't know how this is fun. In terms of temptation it's not even that
good really since it's the most clumsy and easily refuted kind. It's some dude on your shoulder going "But do it tho". And it being the cheaper knockoff of other existing magical materials means it lacks a clear identity of its own beyond "like x but evil".
Like y'know what's a really good counterexample?
Jade. Jade mining is an immensely profitable, critical industry that's also incredibly labor intensive and has a destructive and immediate human cost. Mining in modern times isn't exactly a picnic and Creation is some iron age shit. Sure you can treat your workers better or find clever solutions but that Jade still has to come out of the ground and a lot of people are going to be brutal in how they get it free. And it's a few steps removed from the wielder so it's easier to manage in terms of, dunno, seduction? Subversion? The badass swordsman swinging the cool flaming blade doesn't have to think about the raw ingredients that went into it if he doesn't want to. It's way easier to rationalize ("well the sword's already made"/"Putting up one blade won't make a difference"/etc), which means he can be confronted with it if that's the story you want to tell.