Thoughts on likes:
- Yes, aftercare is super important. It's definitely going to be featured prominently.
- Teasing someone who's sitting in your lap is an A+ kink.
- Actual seduction? Yes please.
- Partners switching dom/sub is a thing I love to write as well.
- Food play ranges from "hot" to "gross" depending on how much of a mess is created thereby.
- Cuddly, voluptuous partners are excellent, as are flat girls, tomboys and feminine boys. Variation in body type and presentation is on the whole a good kink.
- I'm more meh on fit/athletic partners - obvious bulk is a turn-off for me - but I can get behind partners with some physical power. Considering we have three or four people who are into some variation on "amazon", I'm definitely willing to try.
- "When a partner watches their partner dom someone because it's hot": That's compersive cuckolding/cuckqueaning. Yes, it
is a good kink.
- Overstimulation/orgasm torture is the inverse of denial, and
both of them are hot.
- Under-clothes play is hot.
- I find blindfolds difficult to write well, but often very worth doing when I can get into the "eek what touched me?" mindspace.
- Exhibitionism is hot so long as everyone's consenting. Group sex is also hot.
- I'm leery of "madly in love" as a trope - it tends to be done badly - but I think there's room here for non-ideal relationships, and clingy jealous girls are cute.
- Love potions are very not my kink, on the whole. Consent issues, plus my "drugs" soft-limit.
- However, hypnosis is very up there for me, and can be used to do some of the same "altered states" play more safely.
- I'm very not into figging, sorry.
- Tickle torture unfortunately comes under the heading of breathplay for me.
Thoughts on dislikes:
- Sex while using drugs is a soft limit for me as well, for obvious reasons. (Consent & health and safety issues.)
- Don't have a billion poorly-developed partners: yep, not the plan. Emotional depth beats lots of sex any day.
- Denigrating a partner to another partner: I agree that this is scummy, not hot. If one of the partners has a humiliation kink then it can be fun to do it
to their face with their approval, but never in a covert behind-the-back kind of way.
- Trust is indeed super important. I don't intend to portray cheating or betrayal as anything other than shitty in this quest, and if y'all want I'm willing to extend a no-backstabbing guarantee. Just keep in mind that such a guarantee would inevitably reduce the actual degree to which trust matters.
- Incest is "meh" overall to me, so I'm happy to accommodate others' limits here.
- Racial stereotypes are covered by my own racism hard limit.
- Regarding humiliation/degradation: I'm talking specifically about
consensual kink here, do keep in mind. Anything as personal as body-shaming would be subject to one heck of a negotiation with the partner beforehand, and hardly anybody finds it actually hot.
- Having had a relationship with at least one asshole myself: Yeah, they can be seductive, but they're also, y'know, assholes. They might exist, but I'm sure as hell not going to excuse their shitty behavior.
- Mind break/personality loss is absolutely covered by my permanent-damage hard limit. Yes, trauma counts.
- This is going to be a quest about learning sexuality, so I
can't promise that it won't include any bad or harmful sex: fuckups do happen. That said, I definitely won't be
trying to cause them.
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@Sonata: I can't promise to not hit your nope button by accident regarding roleplay scenarios etc, but I'll do my best to not do it deliberately.
- Yeah, creepy-crawlies fall under "filth/unhygenic" for me. Not fun.
General comments:
@Dream Logic: I believe the term you're looking for is "gynosexual" - attracted to femininity.
@Uncle: Can you talk a bit more about what makes you nervous regarding degradation/humiliation?
@Timewinders: Re: Unhygienic: What about scratching/biting/general occurrences of blood during sex?
@Everyone:
Question 1: What genders do you prefer? What are your opinions on trans partners? What pairings do you like? (I personally prefer women - cis or trans - having sex with other women.)
Question 2: Would you prefer our heroine to be more submissive, more dominant, or a switch? (I'm a switch, so I tend to write switches.)
Question 3: What physical characteristics would you like our heroine to have? (Height, build, age, presence or absence of cat ears, etc.)
Question 4: What sexual characteristics would you like our heroine to have? (Are her cat ears sensitive? Does she have a penis, a vagina, or both? Does her cup size matter? Etc. )
Question 5: If you were running this, what would be your top three candidates for our heroine's major kink? Keep in mind the limits the previous vote set. (No major equipment/connections needed.)
) to avoid having to go into it, though.