- Location
- California
Well, I'd like to see some exploration of things and fetishes I guess that don't involve significant power exchange. I think it would also be meaningful for the protagonist to try something and then go "wow, I'm glad I tried it, but this x thing isn't my thing." That's the point of exploring right? Finding out that there are things you both like and don't like?@Uncle: It's the color that's the problem, not the bolding. The best way to make sure you got it all is to use the "clear formatting" button in the top-right.
This is probably because BDSM is such a major grouping. It's basically the entire "sex is power" theme - which means that just about any kink can be BDSM if it's done as a form of power exchange.
However, I'm not sure if "I want an equal relationship not involving significant power exchange" is what you actually intend to say here: there's a "stereotypical form" of BDSM out there, which tends to involve sex dungeons, whips, and people in tight leather, and personally I'm not terribly into any of that either. (Save possibly people in tight leather.)
Are you against the broader theme, its more stereotypical expressions, or both?
Thanks for the praise! These are the kinds of reactions I've been hoping for. <3
If you actually like all the options and want to see them all explored, it's both valid and meaningful for you to literally vote for everything. (This has the effect of making minority inclusions more likely, because the proportion of votes that are positive towards any given option is now higher. 2/3 is larger than 1/2.)
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