Some good points have been made in favor of tent and if it wins that's cool, but I kind of disagree with this a bit. It's true that if default options are given by a QM, they are probable paths for the character. But not all probable paths are created equal, and some will fit better into how an individual perceives the character than others. I think weighing whether or not a potential in-character response is the character response that you feel best fits how you see the character or the direction you want them to go is completely fair.
I think that we are thinking of different things when we say "in-character".
When I say "in-character" I don't mean "the direction you want them to go", but rather that it is a
potential in-character response.
Often times I have seen people pick options just by saying that its "in-character" like the others are not. Like the option they think is "in-character" is the only option there that is "in-character". I am saying this as a person who has actually been on that side of the divide before, and voted for things simply because I thought it most "in-character" and so disregarded the other options. Jumping on decisions that aren't very wise at all, because it was how I pictured the character.
I've… been burned by that thinking before, and have since come to the conclusion that not going that route all the time usually ends up with a more nuanced character.
Also, I find that oft times the QM is pretty good at making the choice that I've found as "not the most in-character" fit the character perfectly well, upon actually reading the update that is the result of the vote. Which then makes my "this is the most in-character vote" choice seem silly upon reflection, because clearly that too, was a very IC choice and I just blinded myself to that fact.
A lot of the time people wave the flag of in-character, like that choice is the
only one they can see the character doing and so stop discussion based on that principle alone.
I once agreed with that line of reasoning, to an extent, but don't anymore.
And frankly , I kind of like reading discussion (despite my large blunder earlier in this thread being due to
not reading discussion), but when it goes to "I vote for this because it is in-character" there becomes no discussion for me to read
I like reading
why people think it is the direction they want the character to go, you know
Then again, not everyone has the time or inclination to write posts with more detailed reasoning every vote (I certainly don't always have that time myself), so…
Well, I guess that I'll just chalk this up as difference in voting philosophies?