So I think the former are better than what you'd find in a vampire game, but the latter are just as bad as the worse of the Vampire society.
Actually, no, worse probably. Vampires have Humanity to worry about, so beyond a certain point you're going to be a draugyr and vampires, at least, hunt down sufficiently low Humanity vampires - both because they're Masquerade threats, but also because it helps vampires feel like good guys.
Ghouls are slightly more sympathetic because they didn't choose to be Ghouls, and because there's extremely well-funded hunters with government support.
And how many vampires chose to be vampires? Nowhere do you need consent.
Doubly so if you're a Hollow Mekhet, like Frances Black. Who had her life deliberately ruined by her sire until she was suicidal, killed herself, and then after she had been dead for a few days her sire pulled her out of her coffin and Embraced her.
... of course, considering that she's British she was very lucky (or maybe unlucky) to get a burial rather than a cremation.