Do you have any of the three you most recommend?
Linux Mint of those three.
I also nominate Pop!OS if you're into gaming (it's Ubuntu derived, but Ubuntu has a lot of complaints from myself and some of my other linux friends, whereas Pop! has had nothing but rave reviews in my circle)
My other personal recommendation is Debian (with the KDE Plasma desktop GUI installed during the installation process - it's available in most installation media already) if you want to start from scratch and are comfortable installing things as-you-need-them, but I'm pretty biased in that regard.
Lastly, honorary mention to Arch Linux, as that's what the SteamDeck runs, but I don't recommend it as a first-timer's OS. It's not as bad as they say it is , but it's definitely more difficult than installing Pop!OS, Mint, Ubuntu, or Debian.
(I've had fewer issues with Arch than Debian and Ubuntu, I'm posting from an Arch machine, and I like it over everything else I've tried, but I'm also a more experienced Linux user at this point too)
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Also, it needs to be said that
you pick your desktop environment's look during the installation process and you don't need Ubuntu to look like Mac or Mint to look like Windows. I've made Debian look like both of them at one point, and it just boiled down to installing the desktop environment I wanted.
If you want the Windows feeling, KDE (or KDE Plasma, whatever) is a good desktop environment to pick during install. Feels a lot like Windows 7 but better panel support IMHO.
If you like the MacOS look, then I recommend GNOME instead for your desktop environment, as it looks and feels a lot like MacOS's UI.
I personally use KDE but which desktop environment you use is a matter of taste - there's a lot of them and you should give them a look.