Pandemonious Ivy
Panties, Revolution. Big Drawers. Parachute.
I don't understand.
Consider a metaphor: A manager at the shop of atrocities tells you he really hates somebody, and is going to make them miserable by setting them on fire. There is no way out of this guy being made miserable, the fire-guy is way tougher than you and all the managers in the company including your significant other either don't want to or can't make him stop. Also the CEO is really invested in this guy being a one man Burning Man festival. He asks if you want to come along and make the guy miserable with him. Your weapon of choice is a water bottle.
Do you walk away, disgusted? It is a disgusting thing, burning a man alive, yes. Nobody is disputing that. It won't make him any less on fire, though. Atrocity levels remain constant.
Do you agree, and grab some drinks for the fire-manager while he's working, in exchange for a raise? That guy remains just as on fire as before. His situation doesn't become better or worse. Your water-dispenser friend who taught you how to dispense water would probably be disappointed in you for agreeing to work overtime for the fire-manager, though, and that would suck.
Do you agree, and grab those drinks, but in exchange for getting your significant other out of Fire-manager's creepy mandatory joint-section meetings? Second verse, same as the first; burning guy's situation isn't any worse for that. Your water-dispenser friend who taught you how to dispense water would probably be sad about it, but at least you'd have an excuse, and he could come to understand your reasons. Fire-manager is a dangerous psychopath, after all.
Do you agree, and act like you hate this guy too, and dump your water on him? The guy is still burning, but less so. He's miserable, but marginally less so. Water-dispenser friend is more horrified at first, because you didn't just go and set that guy on fire, you also misused the water he gave you, and that makes him very sad. But your reasons are probably the purest of the three; the burning guy is now less on fire. You couldn't save all of him, obviously, but you did your best and you tried. Maybe your water dispenser friend still rejects you. Maybe he feels betrayed. And you'll have to deal with the rest of the office side-eyeing you too, yes.
But how is doing something worse than doing nothing?
You're becoming complicit, don't act like this is taking a stand against injustice because that looks completely different and we both know it.