Have I made my point clearly enough? Evidently not since this kind of hysterical wailing continues to haunt this thread two pages after I made it, so let me say my piece in no uncertain terms, and the next time one of you dorkwads tries to pull this "people just say Gamergate is nothing but misogynists" defense it will be abundantly clear that you're either too blind or too dishonest to continue this debate.
Here's the thing: I do not know the makeup of the gamergate movement. Nobody does. That's the problem. Gamergate refuses to classify itself, its leadership, its membership, or its message. In fact, it's so nebulous that all it takes to join the Gamergate movement is to say you have. Do you see the problem here? Someone genuinely furious about issues relating to media corruption and bias is no more or less a member of gamergate than someone acting alone sending hatemail and dox threats to female game developers and perceived SJWs. They are on exactly the same level. Because Gamergate continues to disavow any attempt at structuring itself, it can and will continue to be blamed for the worst actions of the worst people amongst it ranks. Because it won't get rid of them. No matter how large or small an actual percentage they are. I could fire off a nasty email to Bob Chipman right now, use the Gamergate hashtag, and say I belong to the GG movement. And I would be correct. Because there is no GG hierarchy. There is no badge. There is no members list. There is no attempt by the GG movement to distance itself from the hateful elements of the internet.
This, incidentally, is why I call the false-flag accusations laughable - while some of the attacks might even truly be fabricated - because by gamergate members' own admission, they don't know what their own members are doing or who they are, or what their agenda may be. You can't mimic the "we are anonymous, we are legion" credo and then suddenly turn around and say "Whoa, hey dude, that you can't pin that on us, it wasn't our guys." You cannot dismiss this or that incident as being caused by 'extremists' (a statement implying that most of the GG movement is, by contrast, reasonable) because you don't know that they're the outliers. As long as gamergate continues to permit the accumulation of filth, the movement as a whole will continue to be perceived as filthy.
I'll give you a moment to absorb that shocking revelation.
Now, on to the second point I'd like to address. Namely, the cries of "but both sides are just as bad!!!"
Firstly, trying to quantify the actions of thousands of people on the internet of all places is laughable to begin with. But there's a deeper problem here. You doorknobs talk about the gamergate "side" and the anti-gamergate "side" like you're envisioning Napoleonic armies lined up in opposition to one another lobbing volleys of lead back and forth. Except that's not how that works, like, at all. You would very much like to convince everyone that the gaming media is struck through with sinister anti-gamer conspiracies and bias (the most misused word in the entire gamersphere, closely followed by agenda and objective) but the fact is Gamergate is the 'positive' force at work, by which I mean the GG movement is the one that took initiative to try and push for change. Except that as discussed above, the Gamergate movement doesn't know its own ass from its elbow, and so blunders around the net yelling at everything and everyone. People react to whatever happens to come their way, and that's when the "circle the wagons" mentality I talked about in regards to gamers comes into play. Suddenly individuals are perceived as choosing sides and a mass of people who stand in opposition to gamergate (but are otherwise unconnected) are seen as this massive army to be defeated. And simultaneously, the gamergate movement proves reluctant to throw off those members that perpetrate the more disgusting behavior - because the wagons are circled, and having a terrible ally is better than being defeated by 'the enemy.'
All of these issues together is why the entire attempt to defend the Gamergate movement with 'but their side is just as bad!!!' is a total red herring. Firstly because gamergate itself doesn't know what the fuck gamergate is doing thanks to its own self-imposed refusal to vet its membership, secondly because there is no other side; there is no unified anti-gg movement, there's just a bunch of people who, for one reason or another, have had it up to here with the gamergate movement. Maybe for some of them it's because they have something to hide. Maybe some of them received enough spam campaigns that their patience has run out. Maybe they just read this very thread and think that the GG members have done an atrocious job of trying to paint their movement in a good light.