You like to think of yourself as a fairly easy going guy. You crack jokes and bring snacks. You come up with things to do together with your friends. So when you decide to try and confront Buffy about what's going on with patrol you do your best to be as low key as possible. You meet up with her after school and invite her to grab ice cream with you. Once you're both settled you speak.
"So, uh. This has been great but, I've noticed you're not super happy with patrol recently. Just wondering what's up with that. I mean, you're the slayer and everything, it's your gig. I don't want to step on your toes or anything. Just hoping I'm not getting in the way or messing up or something."
Buffy straightened immediately. "What? No, no, it's nothing like that. I just." Buffy looked around for inspiration. "I've been enjoying going on my own? I know I used to complain about that, being the one girl in the world and all that, but I got used to it. And now you're there. Which is fine, great even, love spending time with you Xander, no worries there! It's jut different."
"Oh, cool." You nodded your head awkwardly. "So, uh, should I be asking to patrol on my own? Or maybe partner with Willow and Amy instead, so I'm not in your way?" That kinda hurt to think about. But it's cool, you really didn't want to screw up Buffy's patrols.
"No, no, it's fine, it's fine. I just need to get used to it again, that's all!"
Except you had been going with her for a while, and it seemed that her dissatisfaction with your presence was new. So you had only started irritating her more. That stung. You still nodded. You were going to be cool about this. You were trying to be a good friend. If Buffy wanted alone time, you could give her that.
You headed over to hang out with Amy and Willow. Willow had blue hair when you turned up, much to her worry. It seems Amy had been having a lot of fun figuring out small spells and potions she could use that did nothing useful, "just for practice," she'd promised. It seemed like a pretty good idea. She could use her magic that way without causing problems from using more serious spells. It looked fun too, and maybe some fun was what you needed now.
[ ]Come up with some prank ideas to use the spells for
[ ]Set up a hangout for goofing off with magic
[ ]Use comics to get inspiration
[ ]Write-in