If this is the case, then I think the answer is obvious.You don't want to manipulate people. You just want them to like you. Is that really too much to ask for?
Like with the other choice, half-measures are going to spoil the effect. She does have to modify other things to fit whatever we choose.
Oh. Sure. I am extremely easily swayed.Our appearance is how we present ourselves to the world. Changing our apparent upbringing, with the explicit intention to have people make incorrect conclusions about us, is manipulative. Much more so than changing our appearance in general - which manipulates people only by virtue of making them enjoy our presence.
It depends on who is supposed to be taking us seriously. Other Arcanes, like Delight mentioned, will definitely take us less seriously if we look like we used to be a peasant.It's hard to say, but I'm choosing this. Having marks of hard work should do a bit to reduce the appearance of incompetence/innocence and make it easier for others to treat us seriously.
As such, this decreases both the benefits and the penalties of choosing "cute". I suspect the penalty reduction will be worth more than the benefit reduction, but it's hard to really say.
On planes that're even sorta post-industrial, having callouses will notably odd, with the level of oddness gradually rising with the tech level. On the other hand, if we do land somewhere particularly advanced, not having callouses will probably be the least of the things that'd give away that we're a medieval refugee.Vanessa had about your level of visible muscle, but didn't have any of the calluses of hard work. Tessa, the girl accompanying Galya in your vision, might have fit what Delight is referring to
No., especially since calluses would definitely stick out on her new body.
I'll also need to alter other bits of your appearance to fit either niche, and I admit it'll take me longer to compensate;
Melia right now is concerned about not dying more than she is about her appearance.Fairly disheartened by Melia's reasoning. Valuing her body little and willing to change it so drastically to get people to pay attention to her.
Adventurers generally have sword or weapon calluses, which work calluses are not. And yes, some people know the difference. Mostly people who swing hunks of metal at monsters (or other people) for a living, admittedly, but some nobles will have seen enough sellswords to know the difference. We also lack the nicks and other tell-tale scars of an adventurer. I don't think we'll quite be able to pull off 'grizzled adventurer/veteran fighter' for some time, if at all.[x] Leave the marks of hard work
Looking like an adventurer we are isn't half-bad.
That's also a pretty good point. And just because we can't manage that now, doesn't mean we won't be able to later. Blending in is good.On planes that're even sorta post-industrial, having callouses will notably odd, with the level of oddness gradually rising with the tech level. On the other hand, if we do land somewhere particularly advanced, not having callouses will probably be the least of the things that'd give away that we're a medieval refugee.
Melia right now is concerned about not dying more than she is about her appearance.
In the end, the promise of more welcome interrogations is what convinces you. While you're perfectly comfortable with how you look now, if a 'better' appearance would make other people feel better about answering your questions, you'd like to jump for it. Having other people avoid you was never fun. You can't just stop asking questions; how would you ever learn anything? Certainly, you're a bit worried about condescension and the like, but if that starts to be a problem, you figure you can always train your elementals to harass any offenders. Nothing too harmful, just a few disapproving stares and the like. Even if that doesn't work, you'll take condescension over active dislike any day.
Given that information can be the difference between living and dying, I'd say that it aids in her survival, whether or not she intends for it to.Chose it so people would stop blowing her off when she asks questions because she's a real curious girl and wants to learn.
Conversely, I'm quite happy. It looks like Melia is secure enough not to define herself by her appearance and doesn't have the hangups you've expressed with adjusting when it comes with advantage (in this case, people being more willing to answer questions).Fairly disheartened by Melia's reasoning. Valuing her body little and willing to change it so drastically to get people to pay attention to her.